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From what I understand, thyroid probs can mimic certain peri symptoms. I think that's why my doctor tested my thyroid. As for the hair loss... my husband doesn't understand why I'm not bald by now.

I, too lose some in the shower and when I brush my hair. I never connected it to this Peri/Meno stuff, but I guess this too can happen. My hot flashes can come at any time, day or night. Sometimes I feel it come up from my chest and my whole head feels hot, but most of the time, I feel this rush or surge through my body, then my ears get really hot and turn bright red. The night sweats are a little different for me. There for a couple of years I was constantly waking up soaked, sometimes I had to change in the middle of the night. It's not so bad now, but it does happen ocassionally. I just started getting heart palpitations. (Where it feels like it skips a beat then kicks in again and again) Before that, it was rapid heart beat, sometimes going up to 140 beats per minute and my doctor would send me to the ER, only to have it labeled stress and I would be sent home tranquilized. (I now think it was Peri all along, but they wouldn't consider that because I was in my 30's) I take Toprol XL and the doctor recently increased it and it has helped with the palps.
As for the enlarged uterus and possible fibroids, I have an enlarged uterus, a few fibroids and ovarian cysts, but have never had any pulling sensations. I feel bloated, at times and get crampy now and then, and have had ocassional right sided pain, but I just pass it off as gas or maybe ovulation... (if I'm still ovulating.) The best thing to do would be to talk to your doctor about all your symptoms, just to make sure everythings going ok. It's a pain in the butt being poked and proded with all the tests and such, but it does ease the mind and help you to get through this stuff without worrying too much when all comes out well. As for feeling like you're falling apart, I know what you're going through. I look at people twice my age and they seem to be doing better then I am!

Just keep in mind that this too shall pass. It better!