That is why I love this site...I am not alone
For my hot flashes, I found "Menopause Support" from Prevention. I get it at GNC. I take 2 tablets in the morning at breakfast (along with my regular multi-vitamin). This product contains Black Cohosh, Calcium and Magnesium. This product works wonders for me. Since taking it, I have had NO hot flashes, not even at night, which is the greatest!! Before I started taking this product, I would get night sweats so bad, I was up changing my jammies 2 or 3 times a night...plus opening the window or lowering the air conditioner temp. After showers / baths, I would be beet red as well and so sweaty, I felt I needed another shower. But, like I said, this product works wonders for me...not sure how it works on others. I do have to take a multi-vitamin that is very low in magnesium due to "Menopause Support" contains magnesium. I get very sick to my stomach with too much magnesium...so I must read all my labels to see what percentage I am getting.
Now, if I could just get over the insomnia...
Hope this information helps a little.
"Gramma Cinny"