Carole,
I envy your "hornyness".
This is a little embarrassing but I need to ask a question. I noticed a couple of weeks ago when I was showering that my (blushing) Clitoris has changed. I used to notice it had some firmness to it. Now it feels flimsy. My husband said he noticed that it doesn't swell when we are "fooling around". I don't know if this is caused by menopause or the anti-depressant I'm taking. It has kind of scared me a little.
I know this is an embarrassing question, but have any of you noticed this change?
I am going to check with my Doc about this also.
I hope you all don't think I'm some kind of pervert.
Embarrassed,
Dicey
Interesting question, let us know what your doc says! My SO (he's a doctor, but a radiologist...doesn't do any primary care stuff) and I were talking about any changes I may be going through in that area. He says so far he has not noticed anything different. If I start needing lubricant, it's off to the big city adult shops for some lotions & potions...wheeeee.
Suzie
Thanks for the feedback. Haven't seen the Doc yet. I think my "you know what" feels a little firmer again. We have found some neat stuff to help. You put a drip of this "stuff" on your "you know what". It's like it kind of wakes it up a little. I'm still having trouble due to the antidepressant, but feel better about it now. Too bad antidepressants can make you feel so much better in some areas and mess up other areas. It's kind of like you can't have you cake and eat it too. No what I mean?
I'll let you know when I talk to the doc. Thanks to you all again and take care.
Yours,
Dicey
So, what are you using, coffee grounds? ![]()
Anyhow let us know what the doc says. I'm not having any problems in this area of my life, but knowlege is always a good thing.
Thanks, Cincy
You are too funny!
I just bought a book out of curiosity called Satisfaction: The Art of the Female Orgasm by Kim Cattrall who is on Sex in the City. Apparently, from skimming the book there is a lot to learn that I didn't know! This book is a bestseller...guess there is some interesting things going on in America...
Has anyone else read this?
Dearest
Thank you again for the info. I just love these boards now that I know how to navigate them.
Dearest
Ok, you caught my curious bone. Why are you not a fan of the Premarin family? I have a vested interest in this. I read Christiane Northrup's book "Women's Bodies, Women's Wisdom" which is where I began my quest for the perfect hormone, and I started at the top of her list. I wonder if it says something about me that I ended up at the bottom of the list--ha ha. No, seriously, I love legumes.
Peace and love.
Personally, I don't think I could take anything that was made out of any kind of urine.
BTW, if you don't know already, Dr Northrup has been Dearest's guest in Power Surge. Just look at those Power Surge Quick Links at the top right of every page here on the boards and choose "Transcripts" You'll see what Dr Northrup...and many hundreds of others have had to say over the years
For those on Premarin who have found relief for troubling menopausal symptoms, it obviously makes no sense to change if you feel well. But for those who are searching for symptom relief, there are so many better alternatives to choose from.
Please do the horses a favor, and don't support an industry that makes hundreds of millions of dollars from the suffering of these wonderful creatures.
Mainstream medical doctor and Power Surge guest, Alan Altman, M.D. has said, Premarin, while it's been well studied, and it's been a good drug over the years, comes from horses' urine -- and because it is animal based, we don't know exactly what's in it other than the main ingredient, and you can't tell the horses what to pee, says Dr. Alan Altman, assistant clinical professor of obstetrics and gynecology and reproductive biology at Harvard Medical School.
Dr. Altman was Power Surge's Ask The Doctor, but due to a very tight schedule, Power Surge is transitioning to a new Ask The Doctor -- Dr. Phillip Warner, an Ob-GYN for 35+ years who has followed both conventional and alternative methods of treating menopause.
In a very candid statement, Dr. Warner said, I’m not an animal-rights person. If I felt Premarin was the best product, I’d say take it and to hell with the horses. But it isn’t, so I don’t prescribe it. – Dr. Phillip Warner, director of the Menopause Institute of Northern California.
Dr. Warner also reported as a result of a study among physicians that 66 percent of physicians have patients who complain of side effects from taking Premarin.
As for me, Premarin, made by Wyeth-Ayerst Laboratories, is the only estrogen replacement drug made from animal waste. Other drug companies produce ERT drugs from plant sources, which more closely mimic the estrogens in the human ovary.
Women aren't horses. The idea of hormone replacement therapy is to replace a woman's female human hormones as closely as possible to those her body naturally produces. Equine estrogens made from horse urine, aren't equivalent to human female estrogen. Coupled with that, there are numerous other equine hormones and chemicals with which the female body isn't familiar.
In addition to the usual risks associated with HRT - liver problems, gall bladder problems, elevated blood pressure, stroke, blood clots, breast and uterine cancer -- conjugated estrogens, in particular, have been known to cause elevated triglycerides, one of the most significant contributing factors to heart disease
In addition to increasing the risk of disease in older women, Premarin is taking its toll in another population, young female horses. The Premarin industry spells misery and death to hundreds of thousands of horses and foals. There are approximately over 450 producing PMU farms. Each year, more than 100,000 mares are impregnated each year and tied in stalls six out of the eleven months of their pregnancy - for the duration of their pregnancy and re-impregnated as soon as possible after the birth. Stalls so small, these innocent mares cannot turn around, nor even take a few steps, nor comfortably lie down, nor can the horses lie on their side, their natural sleep position and can't groom themselves.. They get relatively no exercise - allegedly they are exercised outside their stalls no more than once a week. Many are not let out from mid-September until late March. Horses are accustomed to trotting and running. How much can you deprive a living thing?
They are then fitted with a rubber collection cup attached to a hose, irritating rubber sacks strapped around the mares' groins so their urine (known as PMU, or pregnant mares' urine) can be collected to make Premarin, Prempro and Prempac.
The mares are kept thirsty, denied free access to water, so their urine will yield a more concentrated estrogen. The foals resulting from these pregnancies are usually slaughtered and considered unwanted byproducts of the industry.
For those who believe the allegations of animal abuse are the result of only radical animal rights organizations, be advised that many mainstream animal's rights associations have been very vocal in speaking out against Wyeth-Ayerst's inhumane treatment of animals in the production of these drugs. Power Surge has never been silent on this issue. In fact, back in '96 or '97, I invited Wyeth-Ayerst to participate in a forum on Power Surge to answer the animal abuse allegations and many questions by women who were taking or considering taking Premarin. I brought together representatives from Wyeth-Ayerst and PETA, People for the Ethical Treatment of Animals, for an open discussion. You can read the transcripts in the Web site's Library.
Bottom line - it's not just a question of animal abuse, but that with so many options available, I can't imagine why any woman would knowingly swallow anything with horse pee in it. And, as I've said before, if you don't believe it, take one of your Premarin pills and pulverize it. Drop a little water on it and see how your room begins to smell like a stable.
Dearest
Well I asked the question, and you have totally grossed me out. But thank you for the info. I had no idea they were treating horses the same way they treat veal calves. Don't ask me why I thought there was some little man out in the pasture with a bucket, trying to catch horse pee, but that's basically what I thought.
"Triglycerides fell by 8.5% in women on Activella and increased by 11.7% in those on Prempro (P<.001), and total cholesterol declined by 9.1% and 6.9%, respectively."
Dearest
Well I asked the question, and you have totally grossed me out. But thank you for the info. I had no idea they were treating horses the same way they treat veal calves. Don't ask me why I thought there was some little man out in the pasture with a bucket, trying to catch horse pee, but that's basically what I thought.
Kat, if you're grossed out, (geeze, I haven't heard that expression in years), imagine how the horses feel
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So many women have such blind faith in what their doctors say -- not that women shouldn't have confidence in their healthcare providers --in what prescriptions they give them. Here, dear, take this and you'll feel better. What Power Surge has been attempting to do all these years is to empower women to take charge of their own health, not be afraid to ask questions, to ask their doctors what options are available for treating their menopausal issues. I've seen many changes since starting this community. Many more doctors aren't holding a deaf ear to their menopausal patients (maybe because there are so many of us). Many doctors are practicing integrated medicine whereby they openly recommend HRT and/or natural, alternative options. Who knows, maybe it's because alternative remedies have regained popularity. Maybe because baby boomers talk about their issues, ask lots of questions and aren't usually satisfied until they get answers. We're a terrific generation. We've laid the groundwork for so many changes in our society.
All that matters is that the tide is turning. It warms my heart to know that in the past eight years, millions of women have passed through Power Surge and learned that taking charge of their own health isn't simply a matter of Take two aspirin and call me in the morning.
Dearest
It is made from plants and is bio-identical to the estrogen women produce.
Zelma
Thanks for the information. This will be very helpful when I see my GYN doctor in a few weeks. The hot flashes are an inconvenience at best, especially at night!