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shawna
Hi

I am a new member here and I love this site.  I have been reading everything on here for a couple of days now and found the link ** from the pharmacy solutions website.  The sexuality site sells the Libido Lotion and I was wondering if anyone has tried it and if it worked?

My libido is pretty much gone - I am 44 and have most of the symptoms of peri-men.  The libido phase is most depressing and I wish I could "wake up" something down there.  LOL

Anxious to hear from anyone regarding this.....

Thanks!!

shawna
Hmmm...I guess no reply means no one has tried it.

Thanks anyway.

Gemini
Hi Shawna, probably either no-one has tried it, or else they haven't noticed your posting. I know it's not nice if no-one answers you, so just saying 'hi', though I have nothing constructive to say!!I am lucky that lack of libido is not one of my symptoms, I do know others for who this is a problem though. Hope you find some help smile.gif
shawna
Hi Gemini

Thanks for the "hello"!

Consider yourself lucky that low libido is not one of your symptoms.  I haven't had that desire for awhile now, but the weird thing is-a couple of months ago it was back for a few weeks.  

My husband is a sweetheart and very understanding, but I just want the old me back again.  It is very frustrating.

zjsurfer
Testosterone replacement has helped me get the old "me" back!

Zelma

Shadow
Hey, has testosterone replacement caused any other effects worth mentioning, besides rekindled sexual feelings?  I'd like to know.  Interestingly, my sexual desire is intact...I'm hornier than ever, in fact...but emotionally ran out of all desire for my DH! In my case, lack of sexual interest would be a blessing.
zjsurfer
Mostly the rekindled sexual interest and feeling of being more "myself"---don't feel like I'm keeping going on sheer will power---backbone is back!  

On your note though, right before my hysterectomy, when I was in the middle of perimenopause--I had very strong libio--apparently because the estrogen was soo depressed the natural testosterone was predominate.  After my full hysterectomy, that strongly diminished and then kept getting less and less.  Estrace help my emotions and physical problems, but it took the testosterone to complete the picture.

Zelma

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Uilleanne
I just saw this topic...

Yes, I've tried the libido lotion....I didn't notice any difference, to tell the truth.

But....

my husband bought a "pump" because he read it could help with a condition he's gotten after his prostate operation two years ago.  He got me a female adapter.

I didn't have much interest in it for the longest time, but one day I got brave and suggested he try it on me.

WOW!!!!!

that's all I can say.....  :)

dc121
hi. I am new on this site as well...i joined it today as a desperation when i was having a meltdown Wow, finding something intelligent and connecting was a lifesaver. The funny thing is that the meltdown started during a once again heated discusion on lack of libido between both my h and me. It  turned into another blaming session and just created more distance. I get so tired of not feeling understood, and I miss how great things used to be. It doesn't help that i've gained 30 pounds and he has a new habit of surfing porn. I feel guilty for not being sexual and angry about his interest in porn. I used to love how sexual I was...no I'm just sad and bitchy and confused.Anything that would help would be worth a try. I tthink I've been in denial for a year...havent had my moontime for 5 months....somedays this s*cks .For the first time I have hope that I'm not going crazy, or if I am that there is light at the end of the tunnel.Thanks for listening(reading).

Suzie
Hi DC,I can relate to your no libido problem. THis symptom has just been slowly creeping up over me the last few months. I too used to feel energetic and sexy alot! I really miss that too. I feel like it was a big part of who I am . I just don't feel as feminine as I used to. Now with the vaginal dryness and pain starting in it makes it difficult to even try. I feel bad for my hubby too. Sex was always a big part of our relationship before. It makes me feel so old.

Suzie

zjsurfer
dc121

If you don't mind me asking, about how old are you?  What other symptoms have you had?

Zelma

dc121
thanks for the response...I'm 45 since you asked, what other symptoms do I have?...trouble sleeping,I have migraines, leg cramps, mood swings, had really heavy periods for about a year then they tapered off over the summer.Weight gain has happened since I quit smoking about 3 years ago...I use progesterone cream qd...and take herbal suppliments remifen and mexican yam w/dheaMy h was very ill about 2 years ago and and went thru a year of interferon treatments for hep c and had to quit practicing medicine ( we worked together, i'm a surgical tech). Lots has changed in the last two yearsI used to get alot of power or confidence because I was attractive and very sexual in our relationship...now I just feel old, feel like my body betrayed me somehow... or life betrayed me or something..silly i know but it is how i feel.I also travel a good deal with my job...so we have some time alone which is both good and bad...we used to do great "reunions" but now it's sweet, but  very ...mild...and not very sexual.

Love is big enough to hold it all..it's just difficult.

zjsurfer
Have you consider testosterone supplementation?  It has helped me in the libido area!

Zelma

dc121
I'm really learning alot, just today from this site...and I will look into testosterone sup. thanks for the suggestions...I get that there is no silver bullet and this is going to be alot of paying attention to my body and realize that i don't have to just sit back and accept all of the changes without seeking relief and reclaiming my life.
DRose
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Quote: from zjsurfer on 2:16 am on Dec. 18, 2002[br]Have you consider testosterone supplementation?  It has helped me in the libido area!

Zelma

Zelma, How long did you have to use the testosterone supplementation before you noticed a difference?  What type do you use?  I just started on testosterone lotion 7 days ago and keep waiting to see some real results.  I must say that I have had some rather "memorable" dreams the last couple of nights, but can't say for sure that the testosterone is the cause.I sure would appreciate finding something that will help with the vaginal dryness and irritation after sexual relations...  Dr. gave me estrace cream but I haven't started it using it yet, I need to find out if it is okay to use with the testosterone lotion.  Or maybe I need to get the testosterone in another form so I can use the Estrace cream....  :p   Trial and error I guess...
zjsurfer
I notice some difference almost immediately--especially the first couple of days.  Then my body started adjusting to having it again.  It has helped tremendously in the "desire" area.  Organisms are better most of the time, though stress can short circuit that, even with the hormones.  

I use estrace 1mg and testosterone cream.  I'm working on getting the right level on the cream.  (Maintain the increase libido without getting too oily of skin or cause any hairness--sure don't want that!)  So far, so good!

Zelma

DRose
Thanks for your input, Zelma.  I'm going to stick with it.
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