<_< Okay girls.......I have a husband who has the patience of a saint.....BUT.....lately I just cant stand the man. LOL. Honest to god........its like I have become this horrible evil woman who just simply wants to live alone.......I just dont care how nice he is to me........I just want him to go away. Is this normal????? Poor guy cant win with me lately.........and I just cant seem to shake these feelings. Anyone else???

Jadie xo

Hi jadie,

I felt like this a few years back. It has to be peri related. I've read on here other women have felt this. It passes....just hang on!

I've been there too. I went to my doctor in April to have a complete check up. I told him my symptoms. My thyroid test came back ok. Last week I went to see a specialist and found out the doctor didn't even check my blood for hormone levels. Found out I was the one who was suppose to tell him to check the hormone levels. Felt like I had to diagnois and order the test for myself. Anyway the specialist but me on anti depressantants and sleeping pills. All I know is for the last week I haven't had the black rage in me. It feels wonderful. During the time frame between April and Now? I have been through mediation and pre-trial for divorce. We decided to wait until January to Finalize the Divorce. I'm eating so much crow and guilt for my actions. I moved out of the house the day of court for the pre trial. I feel so good with the rage gone and I'm tryig to convince hubby not to finalize the divorce. I question all my decisions now to try and understand if it is really the way I feel or am I being influenced with peri. I've been Married 22 years the 26th of this month. Me, my son and hubby are in conselling individually and tomorrow my husband and I go jointly. I feel totally betrayed by my doctor but I have been using him for 18 years and had no reason to doubt him. Basically he told me I wouldn't need anything for a couple of years. I hope you are on anti-depressants it really has made a difference in perspective.

Yes actually they just started me on Paxil but I dont think its fully kicked in yet...........thanks for your story.......I have been married for 22 years as well......I often think its resentment that I am experiencing right now......I dont find it fair that the only thing hubby is going through is a beer belly.......while I suffer...........I mean yes I know that men go through their own form of mid life thing......but come on now......fair is fair right? lol.


Jadie xo