Thanks for answering, Texann,
Yes, my mom did pass away, about a year and a half ago now. Thanks for your thoughts.
She had cancer, diagnosed as ovarian, but it started with breast cancer and just went to town on her

Her bodily functions just started to shut down in the end, so there is no real comparison to our symptoms, except the sausage toes!
Dad had phlebitis and retained water for years.
Both my sisters have complained about "fat ankles and feet"
I notice the "sausage toe thing" mostly in the really hot weather, and when I have been on my feet for long periods. (Oh, like a regular day at work!

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I must admit that the beer I have after work seems to worsen the problem, helps to relax in other ways, but...POOF! And then I have fat feet

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It's not always related to beer, though. (I don't ALWAYS drink after work), and I almost ALWAYS have fat feet at the end of the day.
JUst some days are worse than others. Can't put it down to a certain time in my cycle cause my cycle just isn't happening lately (5 months no period, two days period, two months nothing, one day sludge, two months nothing, a regular period

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I get relief from warm baths and putting my feet up. Fanning also helps. Massage drives me up the wall! (and I usually adore them)
I have never been a pill-popper, so it's not a big enough problem for me to get pharmaseutical help. I was (and am) just annoyed and looking for suggestions.
Best of luck,
Marilyn