ok im not sure if i am in the right section as there are so many on this forum.....
i have suffered for many years from very heavy periods and lots of pain after they finish.....but when ever i had intercourse with my husband after my period had finished ...as soon as he came we would both feel a lot of stinging..sometimes we have had intercourse near the end of a period and there would be stinging then too......the rest of the month would be fine
about 4 weeks ago i had an ablation of the endometrial and we have only managed intercourse on 2 occassions but both time as soon as he would cum we would both feel stinging....this is leaving him with a sore red penis ...(and is putting him of sex)
granted i havent realy stopped bleeding since the ablation and i did have an infection and now i have thrush because of the antibiotic i was on....but im really worried about the stinging.....what is causing the stinging?..does anyone know or has anyone else experienced this?

Hi Dizzydiza -- I had a similar experience several years ago and was diagnosed with vulvodynia...which I was able to control with diet. Here is a link describing it: http://www.vulvodynia.com/

Could be a possibility? It might be worth a try to cut back on foods with ascorbic acid and up your dosage of calcium without vitamin d...can't remember why that is bad for this particular condition but the vitamin d somehow inhibits the helpful properties of the calcium.

thx milatova..... i had seen this site before but i didnt think to have a proper read of it as there seemed to be so much information about different things.....but quite a few different sections has maybe one thing in it that i can relate to .....it seems such a non exact problem that this could possible be what it is.....i will have to go more into it as i just had a quick scan through to see what i can do to ease this problem...
i think hubby will be relieved to see that there is a reason for it too....he was begining to think there was something wrong with him as well...he is very loving but has been put off sex by this stinging