hi ladies,
I have to thank Jessie xx for recommending this thread! I've recently posted on the same topic, basically. I didn't know this thread existed. But, I' m so glad to know I'm not alone with this. I mean, this month, my period came as usual, right on time, no problems....I still haven't skipped any yet. It lasted it's usual time, nothing out of the ordinary. But about 10 days before i got my period, i had developed such a lousy lower backache! I HAD been doing a lot of house cleaning, and re-arranging things around the house, so I figured it was from that. But, it lasted and lasted. OK, I still thought, no biggie,,,although the pain was bad. (for which i took Aleve, which didn't help all that much). BUT THEN, I got my period, as i said, right on time. GOODIE! I noticed that on the first day of my period, the backache stopped. BUT, IT SHORTLY RETURNED. Now, I went through my period, nothing outstanding. UNTIL, 2 days AFTER my period was completley over, I started in with this weird pre-period feeling down there, this sort of heavy, hanging, churning, in the lower abdomen, which I've always gotten BEFORE my period, in fact, that's usually how i know, that my period is any day. BUT THIS WAS AFTER IT WAS OVER! This had NEVER happened to me before. Then, on day two of this feeling, I notice on the toilet tissue, some blood...sort of brownish color. I knwo that means old blood. At that point, i freaked. This being due to the fact that my mother died at only 57 yrs. old of ovarian cancer.! So, now, I started to think the worst, and had horrible panic attacks, I am living in terror! The blood was there only for one or two bathroom trips that night, and is now gone, and I've spoken to many of my friends, who have told me that they too, have gotten that many times. Well, that made me feel somewhat better.
But, this is day 3, and i STILL have that pre-period feeling down there, it's SORT OF crampy, but not really, more like a "churning"....now, i know that right around there, are the intestines too. I do have IBS, but not badly. But, when it decides to kick in, it's not nice! So, what we've got going here, is this pre-period feeling (STILL!), this IBS problem, where I'm having a lot of "soft" poop (pardon the frankness), and slight nausea and lack of appetite. I know from IBS, you can feel nauseas, and you don't feel like eating. Anyone else here have this?
Like i said, it is now day 3 .... there is no more blood, thank God. The blood was brownish, so I think it was left over stuff, there was no odor. But, today, I started in with this weird sort of "pain"/ache to the left of my belly button, about an inch over...then, another pain, down about an inch frm that. I really couldn't lay on my back, it bothered me to much, I had to turn over to my left side...and even then, it bothered me, but i was able to fall asleep. When i woke up, i had LOTS of gas, and that soft poop. I noticed , that those pains seemed to diminish a lot, but not totally gone. Then, during the day, they disappeared. UNTIL about an hour ago, when, here we go again. This time though, no gas. I notice when this happens, I become exceptionally anxious, it's as if it shoots adrenaline up through my body! It makes you feel like you want to start screaming and running, i guess, to get the anxiety off. As far as OVULATION goes....ok, that 's another one.
Because, they say ovulation takes place 2 weeks after thefirst day of your period. But, I know other women here, who've said, that they are ovulating any old time right now, during peri. Up till NOW, I 've been ovulating pretty regularly, mid cycle....but I have a feeling this is ovulation, and it's only 3 days after my period stopped....well, that would make it then, 7 days after the first day of the period. But, this is nuts! Today, I noticed, that on the tissue paper, there was a lot of that clear, mucousy, "stuff" that comes out when you ovulate. I knwo i'm being very frank here, but I"m trying to describe this the best I can. Anyway, that was on the TP....so, i figured, it must be OVULATION time, but so darn soon? There was a smidge of blood on it, but barely noticeable.
My ovaries THEMSELVES don't hurt or ache. But, all along that lower "sling" (I call it that, because it's that lower abdominal muscle that "slings" along the bottom of the abdomen?), ok, it still feels pre-period...heavy, churning, etc.....also, someone here mentioned, a burning feeling in there, yep...i had that today too. WHAT THE HECK IS THIS....IS THIS PERI? I really hope so! When i had called the dr.'s office today, i got the nurse, she said to me that, if this were ovarian cancer, the pain in the abdomen would be worse, and wouldn't come and go. Also, my bloated belly seems to bloat, then flatten again. But, the lack of appetite scares me....she said, it's not unusual for IBS ... ok, so, after all this .... what do you guys think?
thank you all so much! sincerely, MyDarling