Hi Donna ~
I am taking Wellbutrin (150 mg twice daily) for several years now. For the first year I just took the Wellbutrin - when I was 50 but... I noticed that my sleeping was off. I seemed to wake up four or five times a nite. Not to where I'd get up but enough to wake up and interrupt my sleep. I probably let this go on for too long before taking it up with my doctor during an annual exam. I was, at that time, beginning to experience some 'free floating anxiety" - just out of no where

it would just creep up on me. So I discussed both with my doctor and she added Buspar twice a day. That helped but... it just did not totally relieve this sleep difficulty. A year later, at my next annual exam, I again brought this up with my doctor. She is a very understanding doctor but she is my HMO primary care doctor - a family medicine doctor. She referred me to a psychiatrist to discuss my medication. That was about 4 months ago. The psychiatrist upped my Buspar to three times daily and kept my Wellbutrin the same. I want to tell you that that lil extra Buspar has truly done amazing things for me. I now sleep through the nite and have less anxiety. I'd like to be anxiety free for life but that isn't realistic - anxiety/stress... I've always known that comes with the territory known as life. Just thought I'd pass this on to you.
It was the sleeping difficulty that really took a toll on me - on the week ends I'd sleep until noon just to catch up but I never did catch up because I was ALWAYS waking up during the nite. It was absolutely exhausting and probably was not helping me any in the anxiety department cuz I was just too tired to handle anything. It was all I could do to get up and make it to work on time monday - friday.
Now, I feel like a new person. Last month I wanted to stop the meds cuz I felt so good but my doctors have asked me to continue them for a bit longer. I have had just a heap of major transitions during the last 7 years and they both think continuing the meds a bit longer will help. The psychiatrist even told me that the Wellbutrin helps one focus more clearly.
Oh sheez, I forgot to mention that I could not even read through a book for several years. I just dunno - just couldn't manage it at all. Now - low and behold - I am not only reading but I am back to reeading two books at a time

Oh what a joy!
I've heard you mention you lack of desire to keep the house clean and being quite bothered by it. Up until a few months ago that was me. Not that I have any great desire to keep the place clean but... I'm just not such a drill sargent with myself about it any more.
Maybe it is the change in meds, I dunno. but I am slowly able to think more clearly and see - just see for once in my life - what is and what is not essential/important to my happiness. As a Southern Belle who once prided herself in a clean and orderly household, I am becoming more and more able to settle for somewhat clean and somewhat orderly. My hubby has always claimed he can never see the dirt I am able to see anyway -
I dunno if this helps you or not. I dunno about Paxil other than what I've read. I just hated to switch to something else and finally decided to take my meds as prescribed... I was trying to take less than prescribed for a bit but... I dont have an MD and it just became so bothersome that I finally relented and am following docotr's orders. THAT IS A LOT FOR A CAJUN TO DO - I TELL YOU THAT MUCH!
My best to you and hope you find relief soon ~
Liz (not checking for spelling company at the door)