I can't figure it out. Neither can my doctor. With all the discomfort, hot flashes, etc. I find myself hopelessly aroused. My husband is 55 and doesn't respond the way he used to. I find myself extremely obsessed with sex. I don't know what to do. I have told myself that it's just motivated by the fear of losing my youthful sensuality. I don't know, but it's consuming my life.

Hi jdb2004! WELCOME Check out the sexual issues/libido thread - lotsa info on this subject.

Hey jdb2004: I've been posting about EXACTLY the same thing (check my posting from tonight, just like jimi says). It's just insane. Disturbing. I don't think it's psychological (fear of losing youthful sensuality). I think it's just hormones and we just have to ride it out. Just remind yourself it's chemistry, not insanity. Wow, good advice - wish I could take it myself. Your sister in struggling with idiotic urges, Otter