I am new to these boards and website, I am 46 and I have missed a period, although I still feel bloated and yucky like it is coming anyday! The past year my periods have been irregular, 35 - 40 days and very heavy, so heavy that I soak through my clothes. What a mess!! My question is, is this normal? Or should I go and see my doctor? I am not due for my yearly until October!! Thanks!! Nancy

Hi, Nancy - yes all of that is normal for women starting perimenopause. There are a list of symptoms which you can read here: The 34 Signs of Menopause Although it says "34", many are grouped together like yours: 6. Irregular periods: shorter, lighter or heavier periods, flooding, & phantom periods. Besf luck to you and welcome to Power Surge!

Thanks Mary, It puts my mind a little bit at ease!! Nancy