QUOTE (JZZ @ Nov 16 2009, 09:15 AM)

Oh Mary Beth,
I am NOT circumventing anyone by doing this. It is a legitimate request. One can also send the revised form to the surgeons office if they feel a surgery will be cancelled by this request. (But surgeries will not be cancelled. Most surgeons also request that a non resident perform surgery on themselves or loved ones.) And yes a surgical team is in place for ones surgery (ie, anesthesia, or staff, etc.) But requesting that one resident Not perform ones surgery will not disrupt a team or a scheduled surgical time. And, yes it is correct that no one leaves a resident "to just work alone"....I stated that the surgeon would "be overseeing" the resident. Good luck with your surgery and I did not mean to upset you. Merely addressing the original OP. Regards, JZZ And, yes a resident needs to learn somewhere. But, my own personal comfort level is that it is on someone else.
JZZ -
As I said, agree to disagree. Thank you - and I'm not upset, just see the other side and wanted to present it.
I could ponder and post all manner of things to back my opinion and facts to show correctness, but
really, I was just having coffee, calling my Surgeon, waiting for a callback from the Anesthesiologist about the many meds
needed - and maybe I missed something in your original post. You did not upset me. The issue is sensitive and
as they used to say "loaded" and that is why we talk about it.
Now a Dr or resident or anyone treating a patient, who is not qualified would not please me at all.
Talking is good. Even those reading can just view and ask their practitioners etc. None of us has all the answers.
I have a Family friend that is an outstanding Dr. A Specialist - He saw one thing on an test result of a family memeber, 2 other specialists did not.
I had a Specialist recently decide it was safe to give me meds for a condition - where is expertise is only
that has a Grandchild with the same condition. The 3 specialists in his field disagree with his Diagnosis, and Treatment.
It's 5 with one sensible and well tested diagnosis and treatment and such,
against 1 here - and the 1 is the only one willing to deal with my issue as the complications are great.
I do not agree that he knows what he is doing, but the rest of the team does.
Every single Dr on my team arguing with each other - first they all screamed at me - trying unsuccessfully to prove I did not have the conditions I
do. Every note added to what the next Dr would have to read. It has been a scary, weird mess.
But I hit a point where I realized it cost me a lot in just being cool with the world and my DH did with his job taking 18 hours
a day for 9 years EVERY day holidays family and we both just turned a huge corner this last week.
I backed out - I just tel them the meds for allergies I am on, what my previous bad stories were.
In fact I feel badly for the Surgeon - he has a huge risk cutting into a Hemophiliac,
when the Experts change their minds or refuse to look at data. I am not upset - although I was a few months
ago, knowing they would not agree on how and what meds, just that it MUST be done now. Well,
they will attempt it right after Thanksgiving, I think. Maybe earlier. I put my faith where in my heart, it belongs.
I gave this one to God a long time ago. I was nervous last week when my husband lost his job,
but the numb is wearing off and I am not upset about what you said.
In fact, DH just said, "WOW, you are strong, but you are really on your game
and your head is especially cool and calm today!!" (He is a sleepy head cuz we thought we had to go in early to
consult with one of the Surgical Staff, but I was all ready and caffeinated

Anyway - just wanted to reply and hope you can see why.
In fact, I ain't going alone - last time I had surgery they left me alone for hours after and as I woke up.
last time I had a drug infusion, same thing - and ended up in the ER.
I DO agree it's a matter of comfort.
Mary Beth