QUOTE (bigUblues @ Nov 9 2009, 11:44 AM)

Finally!! I found the post i was so desperately looking for!! Thank you for sharing. I also have some bladder incontenence issues, olny mine are not due to having babies. Unfortunately, my husband and I never were able, and now we are both worried about our ages..too old It makes me so sad sometimes. whoops, sorry; back to the issue. I also have leakage when I run, ex, or power walk-I did not realize it until I noticed an order down there-OMG I was completely mortified!! Now I am so paranoid about it, it is making me crazy. Sneezing is a nightmare for me as well. I have urgency too. No one can figure out why this is happening. I do not have OAB. My gyno thinks it may be due to my enlarged uterus pressing on my bladder. (I have multiple fibroids) He sent my to a urologist to test my pressures, but the results were inconclusive. The urologist would not commit to diagnosing that as the problem. He told me my uterus was"part of the problem" Yeah thanks--tell me something I don't know- what a waste of time. He also said that if I removed my uterus,I would still need the bladder repair, because I would lose support from the surrounding muscles that also hold up my bladder. My gyno told me that removing my uterus would not fix the problem, either; the damage has already been done sort of thing. I don't know what to do. I am worried that if I keep my uterus, the problem will get worse, and I can't even think about that! My dog is on proin for her bladder inc., and if the pills didn't smell so bad, I would be tempted to sneak a few for myself LOL! I have been doing kegels, but am not sure what the most effective way to do them is. I have read so many different theories. Anyone know? I am seeing my gyno tomorrow about another issue--I'm having so much fun lately I can't stand it. I have a complicated ovarian cyst that is no longer visible on ultra sound because I have so many fibroids, so now we will be talking about laparscopy, I am so nervous and frieked out because I have been reading about OV cancer and I have alot of the symptoms! And it doesn't help that i just learned that our insurance benefits will be changing, making me feel added pressure to make a decision before we get some crappy new plan! Please help, any input would be greatly appreciated. Sorry for the semi novel. Thanks,
Laura
Hi there,
First, I would recommend that you DO NOT read about OV cancer or anything like that!!! Once you have the symptoms in your head that you've read about, miraculously you will have them! Check out the thread on "anxiety symptoms" and it will make sense!
Can you try some hormone therapy? It seems that it's the gold standard for ladies our age who experience incontinence issues in terms of a solution.
Btw, good luck at your appointment tomorrow (I have a few myself this week so I know the anxiety you are feeling....breathe deeply....;-)