QUOTE (little lil @ Sep 9 2009, 02:42 PM)

Hi I,ve been Post 3 yrs now still suffering with anxiety, hot flash,s ,shakes, not feeling like myself, Was talking to my Aunt and she say,s 3 yrs is to long to be like that from Meno, She knows I had A total Hyster. But still insists that,s to long to feel that way. I kind of got upset, I told her I couldn,t take HRT but still insists all this is to long. Does anyone agree with her? Could it be something else????
I think since you had a total hyster you might be on a different timetable than if you just gradually went through meno. You went through surgical menopause, not the gradual reduction thing.. you did it all in one big BANG

I'm not sure if it matters, but I can't see that NOT mattering. I think women who go thru surgical menopause have it harder.
Also.. if you didn't have anxiety, shakes, flashes BEFORE your surgery, then I would think it was for sure related to the hyster.