hi ladies can you give me any advice im in meno hell and trying to cope with it all now my mother and sister have fallen out and im piggy in the middle i love them both ones telling me one thing i dont no whos telling the truth i dont no what to do please help thanks denise

Hi Denise,

You are only the "piggy in the middle" if you allow yourself to be there. You cannot be responsible to fix what ails them....simply remind yourself each morning...."Thanks but no thanks" and give it back to the pair of them to sort out. It is enough to be going through this each day without taking on the responsibility of the issues of others. Just send out positive thoughts at the two of them and keep on going with your day. They will sort it out. You just back away. xo

hi darli' - 'energy vampires' - that's what i call some people! i simply don't have the energy for it anymore and I just let people 'do their own thing' and I choose to stay out of it any way I can! If people leave my life because of this (even family) so be it! Here's some food for thought:

FINALLY - Someone is bitchy enough to say it like it REALLY is! (hope the word 'Bitch' doesn't offend anyone!)



BITCHOLOGY

When I stand up for
myself and my beliefs,
they call me a
bitch.

When I stand up for
those I love,
they call me a
bitch.

When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts
or do things my own way, they call me a
bitch.

Being a bitch
means I won't
compromise what's
in my heart.
It means I live my life MY way.
It means I won't allow anyone to step on me.

When I refuse to
tolerate injustice and
speak against it, I am
defined as a
bitch.

The same thing happens when I take time for
myself instead of being everyone's maid, or when I act a little selfish.

It means I have the courage and strength to allow myself to be who I truly am and won't become anyone else's idea of what they think I 'should' be.

I am outspoken, opinionated and determined. I want what I want and there is nothing wrong with that!
So try to stomp on me, just try to douse my inner flame, try to squash every ounce of beauty I hold within me.
You won't succeed.

And if that makes me a bitch ,so be it.
I embrace the title and am proud to bear it.

B - Babe
I - In
T - Total
C - Control of
H - Herself

B = Beautiful
I = Intelligent
T = Talented
C = Charming
H = Hell of a Woman

B = Beautiful
I = Individual
T = That
C = Can
H = Handle 'anything'


have a great day everyone!

Princessgod,
I really like that!! And so true. =)

thanks for your advice medium at large i WILL let them sort it out princessgod love the bitchology its brill

WELL!!! Count me in sweet cheeks.........is that why I have been chained to the house by my family and gagged like Hannibal Lecter? Don't think I will start eating livers with a nice bottle of Chianti, but I will pull peoples faces off.......hhhmmm it feels good to be LIBERATED!!

You have a great day too......

Michah

Absolutely, this is no time for you to be trying to fix other people, even family (if there is a good time). It's time to take care of yourself and your health.

Ang

Wow, Princess......... I am printing this out and putting it above my computer. I have had a really rough day trying to stick up for myself and my rights and this just gave me my second wind. Thank you..............Debra

My #1 rule in any relationship at this point in my life is NO DRAMA!

AMEN!! I'm adopting that one!

LOVE IT! THANKS -PRINCESS