Ive been trying to see where to post about the tingling in the butt check and top of the leg...what the heck is going on..i was standing at the video machine and suddenly my butt/leg did the numb dead feeling tingling weird thing...i dont know if its a pinched nerve or some other trial of peri menopause...any ideas how to treat it?

I usually find the best treatment for anything like that is wait half an hour.

But I would also recommend you go see a chiropractor. There may be a trapped nerve or something.

I've had a "dead" area on my left thigh ever since pregnancy. It's not getting worse or better and doesn't hurt or limit me at all, so I just ignore it.

my brother in law told me im sitting on my fat butt too much at the computer lol...the numbness dead feeling only happens after ive been walking around like at the shop...it doesnt happen at home...i also dont know if its the fabric of my skirt brushing against my skin and irritating a nerve...so many strange feeling since this perimenopause stuff hit.

Could be something to do with your back. I have a numb area on my foot but also experienced periods of numbness and tingling in the lower leg which came and went. I was referred to a Podiatrist. The numbness in the foot turned out to be Morton's Neuroma - a foot condition. However, the Podiatrist thought the sporadic numbness in the lower leg was related to my back. I couldn't see how numbness and tingling in a part of the body so distant from the back originated in the back. However the Podiatrist explained that the system of nerves is quite complex. I haven't experienced numbness in my lower leg at all recently. I think it might relate to posture. Certainly sitting at the computer for long periods can cause all kinds of problems. We're meant to get up and walk around every fifteen minutes I think!