I think it is heartfelt but easily misinterpreted...
QUOTE (nc53215 @ Jun 5 2009, 06:43 AM)

i feel god does this for the rest of our lives so at the end we will welcome death, but you must endure til the end of his choosing !!!
Maybe, but if that's so, what does it say about the people he takes suddenly? I've lost several people to sudden death in my family, some of their hearts just stopped as young as my age (that's one of the reasons I used to worry so much about the palpitations.) Maybe for some people it's a 'gentle' decline and a reminder that our bodies won't last forever, but what I think is that God gives us all different burdens... but never more than we can endure (though they surely test the limits at times!) Maybe you have these problems so that you can overcome them and realize that you're stronger, or maybe it's so you won't be afraid to ask for help, or maybe, it's so that years and years later, after you've either overcome them or learned to live with them, you can pass your wisdom and reassurance to those you meet later who are having the same problems you're experiencing now.

Try to think positive... I know it's hard to do if you have anxiety, but it really does help!
By the way, those people who died suddenly in my family, never knew they had a problem with their heart. Many people in my family have issues with palpitations and arythmias though, both men and women, and they're never the ones who died suddenly... all of them lived to be like 90+! My grandmother had them all her life, so constantly that she never realized it was unusual until she was told by doctors.
I get them the worst around menstruation or ovulation... sometimes not just the odd flip flop every now and then, but runs of ectopics every third or fifth beat in bouts lasting several minutes to an hour at a time. I can't isolate any single factor that consistently causes them other than anxiety or hormones (or hormonally induced anxiety) though certain triggers do seem to coincide with bad spells of ectopics for me: eating too much sugary foods, activities involving lots of bending down (like housework), gassy spells, reflux, eating big meals. But none of these
always cause palps for me. However there is one factor that does cause them more predictably than any of these... and that's thinking or worrying about having palpitations. That one does it to me almost every time! Now if only I could stop myself from doing it... *headdesk*
I've never had a hot flash after an ectopic, but I have definitely had uncontrollable surges of anxiety that made me feel lightheaded and flushed. I'm not sure this is entirely caused by irrational fear, I personally think the sensation of having palpitations is so similar to the rush of fear (after all, sudden fear usually causes palps) that maybe it fools our minds. And then the anxiety kicks in, making it worse.

For me it can turn a single random ectopic into a run of them. I've heard that lots of people have had hot flashes either before or after a bout of ectopics so it doesn't seem to be anything unusual.
And yes, sleep apnea can definitely make you feel unwell, a lack of good sleep wreaks terrible havoc on the mind and body, and can cause all kinds of problems, including palpitations. I have a mild case of it myself, but it strikes so rarely (once every 3 or 4 months maybe) that I haven't bothered asking anyone about it yet. I know it may become a bigger issue as I get older though.