in the back of my mind, i always think "geez", what would make me happy and for once, have a piece of mind...

1. money!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2. my kid to get a fantastic job, he can't find one of those
3. of course, good health (that should've been #1)
4. a great set of tits, and with it, a pouty set of lips, luxurious hair
5. turn the clock back, my body is soooo out of shape

well, i could go on and on.....there are so many things, just curious of what is on your top priority wish list (the one's we know we only dream of!)

1. What I would really like to have right now at this time in my life is to feel HUNGER again...........instead of PAIN!!

I don't think I've felt hunger in a very long time, which means............I have not truly enjoyed food in a very long time either.

I eat because it hurts if I don't!!

And............it hurts when I do!

2. I want to give my grandkids MANY wonderful memories!

3. I want to enjoy the last years that my dad has left.

4. And of course, my mother too.

5. I want to go places and do things.

6. I want to be full of energy.

7. I want to laugh and play!

Let's see what would make me happy right now!!! Too many to list, but here are my top ones

1. Good health for myself and family
2. To get rid of these awful symptoms and have a day where I wake up and feel good, and for the anxiety and health anxiety to stop!
3. For headaches to stop
4. Money
5. That my son gets a job after college
6. That I could stop the aging process, I look at photos from a year ago and see the difference
7. To get rid of fatigue and have more energy, I mean geez, my parents in their 70's have more energy! lol
8. That this war would end and my husband doesn't have to deploy again (should be #2 up there somewhere)
9. I just want to enjoy life and laugh again, it seems these symptoms have taken that away.

I know there is more but these are the top ones.

OK...Here's my wish list.


I wish...................


That my husband would ADORE me again like when we were first married.

And that he would treat me like I was the center of his world.

That we didn't have any money problems ever again.

To see all my kids happy and not have any money problems.

That I lived closer to the rest of my family again.

That I could magically loose 50 pounds!

That I felt great again and had my enthusiasm for life back.

That I could go on a two-week cruise of the Carribean!

I wish for a healthy 20 year olds ovaries and Boobs..maybe the bumm too !!

Oh wow, what a list I could make!!! I've thought about this and while it's tempting to go with the "I wish for world peace" line, I'd love to have the body I had when I was 30. I'm not being unrealistic and wishing for the body of Angelina Jolie but I'd love to have the shape I had when I was 30 only with bigger boobs. LOL Right now if I had to ennumerate a list I'd probably go with and not necessarily in this order:

1) younger yet not perfect body (just more perfect than the one I have now!) with perkier boobs. (I'm a D now but they are saggy baggy looking)
2) a husband who adores me and actually really does understand me (or at least tries)
3) good jobs and happiness for my children.
4) enough money to be comfortable and not worry about what's coming.
5) live somewhere not right on top of my neighbors. I've grown less tolerant of other's noises (ie. barking dogs, screaming undisciplined children, lawn mowers at 8:30 on Sat.)
6) the ability to travel to all the places I've always wanted to go and haven't been to yet.
7) Oh yes, and NO HOT FLASHES!!!

omg, what wonderful replies, it is OUR creative wish list.....i forgot a few (hundred) not in perfect order, i just want at least one of these or maybe 5!

i want want want.....................a game room to escape from hubby watching war flicks all of the time on the weekends
2 "real" friends that i can count on
i better mattress for my aching back
we could all mention NO MORE HOT FLASHES
my youth back....so much wasted on stupid things i did, i could kick myself (well, i just did!)
no worries........sickly parents, house payments, retirement (i'll never get that far, i swear)
quitting smoking
yes, to really laugh, like a "belly laugh", without the next minute when reality comes running in.
ok, i'll say it........for my hubby to get a big chubby
to go places, i am agoraphobic.......... i wish i just could
to have the last dance with my beloved father
quit obsessing with health issues
learn how to "pole dance" with dignity.....that is out of the question
to feed our kids, those who have nothing in the fridge, but spoiled eggs and sour milk
never to hear the word, torture amongts the world....never ever
a dental plan thru health insurance
to have a hubby not so horny, cause i lost my libido, wish he did once in a while
i huge flat screen tv and a room big enough for a couple of giant recliners, plus all of you
yes, neighbors, that mind their own business.....you got one of those picky people on every block
for us women to be heard, like screaming out loud, peri and post.....take it seriously..i think i'll make a bumper sticker....hormome challenged, stay 3 cars behind me (sp)
not to have to wear clothes that cover up all that age did to me
no more wars..........that is the politicians.....glad we have the luxury of going out to vote, this one in middle east will never be solved
to wish something in the future will be good, i have a thought, i'm going to lose my parents ( mom 82 dad 84 and had a severe stroke)
hire someone to do the cooking, cleaning, food shopping and balancing the checkbook

love you all..........i'll just keep thinking them up, while, getting NONE!
PS: DID I WISH FOR A TOTAL PIECE OF MIND?

1. good health to everyone
2. my kids and family to be well off and happy
3.money
4 mil to move out of our house
5. to own my own deserted tropical island so when i need to get away

OK. Let's see...hmmm...whatever I type, I'm sure I'll think of more as soon as I hit "enter"...

I hope --

1. For Stability -- Due to financial reasons, I had to sell my house and move back home. I'm currently lving part-time between my mother's and brother's houses. Job is uncertain. Would love to have a job that pays a little more than mine so I can get a place to call my own again.

2. For a happy future with my Internet guy -- Jim and I met online nearly a year ago, and hit it off astoundingly well. But due to distance (I'm in TX, he's in NY) and finances (he and I have both lost our jobs and gotten new less financially satisfying ones since we met), we haven't gotten together. My wish is that we get to meet face-to-face soon and that we are as compatible in person as we are online.

3. That I come out of the other side of menopause no longer needing my anxiety meds.

4. That my brother's business weathers through the financial and personnel issues he has right now.

5. For an end to Jim's financial problems (he got hit with a $102,000 debt he was unprepared for)

6. That my mom's problems with my cousin who lives next door to her resolve for the best.

7. That my grandmother recovers from the death of her oldest child and best friend -- her daughter Denise (was my favorite aunt as well). She always said she couldn't imagine losing one of her kids. Now that she has, I worry that she won't make it. She's 92, so any shock could be bad for her health.

8. That everyone was as concerned about the environment and future of our planet as I am.

9. That our new president fulfills the promise of hope and change for the better for our country that we expected when we voted for him.

10. And finally -- I wish for a life where money is not always the most important thing.



Good luck to you all, and remember -- Be careful what you wish for. You might just get it.

1.For my children to be healthy and happy
2.for hubby & I to fall in love all over again(with each other)

after all of what i read, my tears are stopping what i can say to each of you....individials...........so impressive...i wish upon a star. that all of the said above, come's true...........i cannot take back many things, too long gone, and i have made my own fight trying to get there, i did not get there, yet i will ?????? go on....i love the stories, each are so different, yet we live on the same planet, somehow, we suffer thru it. and that is not fair to any species! i can go on with what you all said, and you said it right...i can go on with much more, cause, i'm treading in my old, place that i never thought i would have been there...lessons of life, so ever said life is fair?
at this very moment, i am quite amazed of your response's............i am thankful that i am not the only one
next chapter.......you take it on, and i will go on with it!