I can surely relate with you! I've been struggling with fibro type pain for over 2 years now. I am 51, and now in menopause but I believe my stiffness, tiredness, aches and pains are caused from lack of hormones.
After 2 long years of struggling with tests, finding the right doctors, I finally found a doctor that will prescribe the bioidentical hormonal cream. At first, my previous GYN gave me patches (all 3 - the last being Vivelle Dot) but still wasn't helping. I couldn't convince my GYN to increase my dosage.
But, finally the GYN I am working with now is willing to do compounding creams and increasing my dosage little by little.
I am also not convinced I also don't have a thyroid issue as well - my tests are normal and I can't convince any doctor that I need to have a thyroid scan.
The hormones were helping me sleep, and helping me feel like myself for a few days but then we increased the dosage since it wasn't quite right. Now, I'm not sleeping again and have itchy skin, but my stiffness is less today.
I understand from reading Susanne Sommers book it could take months before getting the BHRT therapy right.
Ladies - don't give up hope if you are having pain. I have read so many books to educate myself about this type of pain. If you need recommendations of books to read, let me know.

I also have a vitamin D deficiency but taking supplements didn't help my pain. It gradually returned and got worse. I think fibro pain when you start having it in menopause can be from lack of magnesium, vitamin D, and hormones, and/or thyroid.
The trick is to find a doctor that will work with you which is the hardest part.
Don't give up!
QUOTE (corky21 @ May 11 2009, 12:28 PM)

First my story. I have had the occasional back going out in my adult life and always bounced back. Then it seemed that around 2003 I was having more muscle spasms and at that time I had also quit my job to stay home with my 3 year old. I think I was more stressed with childcare than my professional life; however I still bounced back and would be pain free and fine for long period of time. Then in 2005 I lost an ovary and soon after that I noticed my back issues were getting a bit more frequent. I was told to lose weight which I didn't do for awhile. I still would be okay and able to exercise 5 days a week (didn't diet though

) but I was exercising a lot. But slowly I noticed over time my back issues kept getting a bit worse. I had an MRI in 2006 and was told 2 mild disc bulges. I kept exercising when I could but then by 2007 I was having trouble just standing for more than 10 minutes. I'd get intense low back pain and would have to sit and rest. This gradually got worse and worse. I could get around and function, but I'd have some kind of pain almost every day.
Around 2007 I started to think it was the perimenopause that I fell into after the removal of the ovary. I took only natural herbs/vitamins to try and get my energy back, mood better, and depression over these pains gone, but after about a year of that not helping much I started the bio HRT in 2008. I figured these pains that come on have to be either the discs or hormones. I saw this website here and everyone complaining about pain and so I thought all my pain was from low hormones. So now I've been on the hormones almost a year and I'm still sitting here in pain. I have tried 3 different physical therapy sessions of stretching and strengthening only to feel worse; I've done 8 acupuncture sessions and that didn't help either. Now I'm using a chiropractor and I notice some change where I have the bulging disc, but my other pains remain.
Around the time I started the bios I was researching low thyroid. I started to realize that many of my symptoms were low thyroid and muscle pain and triggers that accumulate on muscles are a symptom of low thyroid hormone as well as low sex hormones, emotional stress and physical strains to name a few. I asked for a sonogram of my thyroid and it was found I have complex cysts and nodules and some mild enlargement. Hmmm? I thought I want the Armour. I found a doctor to give me some but he is keeping me too low and I'm now hoping my normal doctor will work with me. But I digress. I started the Thyroid and I have noticed much of my morning aches/stiffness are gone, and my nails have improved, but I still have the pain.
My theory:
I believe all of us women on here complaining of pain (even fibro pain) have it because of muscle triggers that can grow anywhere. I think that also many of us have thyroid issues as well and low thyroid causes muscle triggers. Also the imbalance of sex hormones can cause the triggers too. Now I'm on the hunt for someone who can work on the triggers as my chiro doesn't do a good job with them. I read Massage Envy can do this type of thing, but I don't know how experienced they are. I'm also going to try and work on them myself as I have found areas in my buttocks/hips that are very sore when I push with my thumb. It seems to me that as time went on I got more and more pain and I think it was because I never knew I had these triggers and when you don't treat them as they come the triggers can cause more to develop.
I think the only way to truly get rid of them is to get an experienced therapist to needle them, or massage them away at the same time as getting the thyroid and sex hormones in balance.
As for the all over fibro pain I truly believe it's low thyroid/adrenal issues and vitamin D deficiency as well as iron and other minerals and may also have some triggers involved too.
Is there anyone here that realized this before me that got relief from those nasty buggers in the muscles? I'm so sure that I have muscle triggers that I'm thinking of even going back to my acupuncturist and showing the spots that are sore and tell them to needle me all over that area.
I have a terrible time with trigger points - I go to aquatherapy twice a week and bought the trigger point book to work them out myself. Boy, can they be painful!!!! I haven't found a good therapist to work them out either!
I have been told by my GYN that he thinks my trigger points will get less and less when we get the hormones regulated. Hang in there!
QUOTE (Iradan @ May 11 2009, 01:19 PM)

Fibro pain is different from the one you get from bulging disk pain, fibro is burning sensation pain, also it can be shooting pain too, on ocation.
I am 100% positive, it is caused by low estrogen, as this flu-type pain and soreness all over, is a part of PMS package, I used to have before, so indeed it is from low levels of estrogen.
I also think, on a top of hormones, we all have body wear and tear, although, we are still think we are young in our mind, our body knows better than this.
I went through the wost fibro pain 4-5 years back, when my whole body was in agonizing burning like pain, and any point I pressed, felt like a trigger, now it is very subtle, mostly when I am due to may period.
It was initial drop in hormones, that caused this pain, but I guess my body adjusting now, as I am over some symptoms, but getting different one now.
You can go to accupuncturist, and they know the trigger points pretty good. I thouhg, I have noticed that deep massage and manual interaction, made it worse for me,
I avoid massages, chiropractors, accupuncturists, i swim and use steam room few times a week, and stretch while in steam room, this helps more than anything esle.
I also figured that stress and anxiety are major trigger, so I try to control it.
It is hard to tell what causes the pain, fibromyalgia like IBS, is Rx of exclusion, a mysterious illness, mostly caused by depression and anxiety, and low level of hormones during menopause.
HTH, good luck,
I.
It is good to know that someone else recognizes that fibro type pain can be from low estrogen!!!
Acupuncture made my pain worse initially - I only went once. I go to aquatherapy and my therapist stretches me out really good before getting in the pool. It seems to help. I think that bioidentical hormones, either aqauatherapy or yoga exercise (that is the hard part with fibro) is the best.
You don't know how long I have struggled to get someone other than my husband to understand that my pain was probably menopause related.