Hi ladies I have recently been diagnosed with having a rectocele that requires suregery to repair.I am scared to say the least but I am almost unable to go to the bathroom on my own so I just don't know what to do.If there is anyone out there can help I would appreciate it greatly.

Try going to the Whole Woman website. The group there deals with prolapse issues without surgery. I have a cystocele and have had some luck with using the techniques from the site, mainly the posture. MANY women on that site are having problems with rectoceles and finding alternatives to surgery. I'm not sure yet the new posture and exercises they rec. will cure all my issues, but surgery is risky and far from perfect. Many women have more problems after surgery than before. Good luck, Hope