good to hear that this board is helpful, jimmyj, and that it has enabled u to be more understanding of what your wife is going through. thank you for TRYING to understand. i have a DH who tries his hardest to understand, learn and help me and is a FANTASTIC husband. even for him, it gets really tough (and was especially true before i found treatment that
helped to mellow me out!....some, but i still have my moments!).
keep hanging in there. for me, i don't know i would survive this without my DH and all his support!
u guys deserve an award

(looked but didn't see a smiley face with a crown!)