I am a data-freak and try to research the things that are happening to my body, but I can't seem to figure out the big picture, and so far I have found no Dr. who will look at the big picture.
Here's the deal:I am 44, I have 4 teenagers and a wonderful husband who is an R.N.When my identical twin boys were born 14 years ago, I had a C-section, had my tubes tied, and had the twins 6 weeks early. This seems to have thrown my body into turmoil. Soon after, I began bleeding extremly heavy during my periods, had back pain with the periods and PMS like you read about. At age 39 my GYN saw a large lump on my neck and sent me to an Endocrinologist for further testing. He took biopsies of the lump and the tests came back benign. He told me it was nothing to worry about, just a lump, stop worrying so much, get a life, and see-ya-later. I did stop worrying because he made me feel like a fool for doing so. (he did, however, rupture my esophagus and my neck swelled to 18 inches the next day, ended up on an overnight at the local hospital) The following year I started packing weight on in the hips/thighs/abdomen/arms and breasts all of a sudden. I gained 15 pounds in 2 months, with the same eating habits. Even my underwear were too tight. Grim, indeed.I started noticing pain on my right side just below my rib cage, a sort of constant dull pain with tenderness. I could not even sleep on that side.Then I became exhausted, work (at a florist), and home-life was taking it's toll. I just wanted to sleep. I finally went to my Dr., who has since been fired by me for being a thought-less jerk, and convinced him to take blood. (he told me I was depressed, wanted me to take Zoloft!!)The blood came back with extremely high liver #'s, up in the 400's where 40 was the norm. Off I go to a Gastroenterologist. More blood work, higher #'s. He asks me what the lump on my neck is about. I tell him it's a tumor on my thyroid that I am not supposed to worry about. He tells me to worry, sends me to another Endocrinologist. This guy takes an ultrasound and tells me I now have 3 tumors, one large one on the right and 2 smaller ones on the left. More biopsies, no cancer. Phew. Back & forth I go to the liver man and the thyroid man for well over 2 years.. Neither man wants to know (or talk about) the other. This is frustrating, for I am thinking there must be a connection to all this somehow.Meanwhile, I am having hot flashes and night sweats and PMS symptoms that are driving me, and my dear family, insane. My GYN puts me on HRT patch to help with PMS and bleeding, which I took for a year. This made me gain more weight, and I was still having night sweats. (I am wondering about Estrogen Dominance now... ) Finally I decided to stop using the patch on my own, and stopped cold turkey. The next week I started bleeding and bled for 26 days. My GYN wanted a vaginal ultrasound, which revealed a fibroid tumor and flallopian cysts. I started my next period with severe back pain and abdominal pain and then my leg went numb and I knew something was pressing on the nerve. An internal was done and the Dr. said she could not find the 'broid, so she guessed it was behind the uterus, possibly pressing on the Sciatica nerve. They gave me Darvon for the pain, as well as Naprosyn.I see her again on 8/21 to discuss options. She had suggested an IUD to send Progesterone straight to the 'broid to shrink it, but I don't like that idea. She also mentioned going in to try to locate it's exact position and possibly removing it. Do they grow back? She said that if it were not causing me so much discomfort, she would probably not be concerned about it at all, just watch to see if it grows. My mother had her uterus removed for fibroid tumors and her mother died of cancer of the uterus, which started with fibroid tumors. (I just found this out 2 days ago)
I am currently using progesterone cream 900 daily and vitamin E to control the hot flashes. In reading in this wonderful forum I am seeing that I am not supposed to use the cream every day, but no-one told me this, and so I have been doing this for a month.I am currently still exhausted and am not able to do much more than work 4 days a week and cook dinner at night, sometimes I can't even cook. My legs are soooooo tired, my back aches constantly and I still have pain on my right side, which is getting worse. I also still bleed very heavy (a super-plus tampon every 30 minutes, AND a thick pad) for 4 days once a month. This is getting old.BTW, the liver man did everything short of a biopsy and says I have "a fatty liver" and that it's normal for a woman my age. Last time I saw the thyroid man he asked me if I thought I needed medication. (I thought it was his job to determine that) I did try to take Synthroid once and my heart went crazy, beating hard and fast, and he took me off of it.I have an appt. next week to see a Homeopathic Dr. who I hope can offer some insight into the whole big picture.I am now so totally confused about what to do, and I feel like I have to make these decisions on my own, for none of these Dr's seem to be concerned about all of it as a whole.I read on the web about untreated thyroid problems, and alot of those symptoms seem to apply to me, including liver problems. ???
Does anyone have any insight about what I should do?
Healthcare in this area (Lakes Region NH, very remote) is (obviously) not too good, I am only 2 hours from Boston, but can't figure out what kind of Dr. to go to if I went there.
(I just re-read this and I sound like a lunatic)
Any help and insight from anyone would be most appreciated, I just don't know what to do anymore, and I am so tired of trying to figure it out on my own.Thanks for being there and for listening.~Nancy