Hi blessy
Yes I can really relate to your post, last year, everything was feeling tight up there, until I stopped using tampons which I think dry out the vagina
at this time.
I actually think the dryness we experience during Peri effects a lot of areas of our bodies.
Sometimes I wish I could just dip my whole body in a vat of olive oil
I have also had the strange nerves type sensations in the vagina, even to the extent that
some months it felt a little like a vibrating cell phone was down there.
I think Joyce is right to call it vaginal anxiety.
I have a rule of thumb unless I am seriously worried about a symptom, I leave it for 3 months to see if it
improves or morphs into something else to worry about.
This has helped me a lot to weather the Peri storm, I am now 42 and hoping to be done by 45.
I've given my body the hard word anyway

Hope it's listening.