Hi Brinks,
Thanks for your encouraging words, it helps alot. I'm glad to hear you are still continuing to do so well after your hysterctomy, that's great!
And like you said that waiting is the worst part then I can get through this and hopefully I can deal with the other scarey part, will be okay. I know I've felt restless, fearful,so anxious/nervous since waiting and
can't concentrate hardly at all. I just want to get it over and get on with my life. Last night before I went to bed I did have some anxious like jittery feelings, and when I was in bed trying to get to sleep. Finally I was able to get to sleep after about 20 min.. The night time is the worst time for me since I have more time to think about the surgery.
Yes it is sure amazing what they can do in surgery. Kinda scarey to me though since they'll be seeing my insides while I'll be sleeping.

Is great you could have it done laproscopically. My dr. though recommended I have it done abdominally, and his was the 2nd dr. I went to that also said this so I think I better trust since two drs. have said this to me. Just I still wonder why the first dr. said she could do it laproscopically while the other two drs. said different, said it would be safer and quicker. Cause the first dr. knew also that I had several large fibroids and enlarged uterus. Yes I'll have to make sure to rest up well, take time to heal. I think that will be one of the hardest part too in this all for me as I don't like to be down long or laid up, I like to be up and about on the go but I will be sure to rest awhile to make sure I heal well. Like you suggested I'll just have to be patient with the healing.
What is ativan? I've heard that name before but never did ask before what is is exactly. I should try some meditation CDs, maybe would help with my nerves. But you said you really didn't need to be so freaked out so I am being the same way, about it all too so wondering if I do need to but maybe would be good while watiing. What kind of meditation CDs did you use?
Thanks again Brinks for all your kind wishes/ words. I appreciate it so much.
Peace and love too,
Noreen
Hi Fellow Hyster-sisters!
I'm 8 months post op and feeling fantastic. Noreen, I had the same anxieties as you. Hystersister.com has a ton of ladies dealing with the same feelings.
THE WAITING IS THE WORST PART!That's all you need to remember. The waiting is the absolute worst part. I was scared to DEATH, anxious, fearful. So many feel like this before surgery.
We cleaned out closets, prepared food, battened down the hatches, all for naught. I was healed the moment I came out of surgery and have not had a single drop of blood. I am so grateful and my life has started anew.
Remember, it takes time to heal. The stuff we can see heals more quickly so, you do need to be kind to yourself and be patient with the healing process. Everyone heals differently and at their own pace. Since my surgery was done laparoscopically (I had giant fibroids that they ground up and ****** out, amazing!) I had very little evidence of surgery on the outside, and my cervix was left intact. So no vag cuff or anything like that. I was back to work part time in 2 weeks, full time in a month, and am now doing fantastic.
You will be good as new by the holidays.
I used mediation CDs (and as I write this I am incredulous that I was that freaked out, because I had no need to be) and used every technique and my ativan to combat my nerves.
Good luck to all of you facing surgery. Have faith and confidence in your surgeon, and take time to heal.
Peace and Love,
Brinks
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