I had a complete vaginal hysterectomy with sling/ bladder to help me with out of control wetting myself and the surgery has made it even worst. I get up in the morning and I wet all the way to the bathroom. When I need to go thru the day as soon as I see the toilet I start going and can't stop. I am 54 and I had this done in 99 and my doctor tells me it will get better but I don't seem to inprove at all. Help does anyone have any advice on this topic, also I have been on a lot of different HRT and I was put on climara 0.05 mg/day patch once a week yesturday. i would like any info. on how good they stay on and any secrets on keeping them on?