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razorfloss
huh.gif Hi there ,im so glad ive found this site i do hope i can find some ladys on here who have or are suffering the same ,basical to know this is normal .(although i dont like to think others are suffering like this)
My periods have been changing over this last year ,im 36 i stated my periods when i was 9 ,,far too early but nothing i could do sadly i just had to cope ,but this last year they have gotten lighter or sometimes heavier .but now this past three months or so there about the same as ive always been but something horrible is happening ,i get bad cramps now this is usualy when im passing clots ,,this is my issue these horrible clot things ,its like raw liver there not huge kinda the size of two 2 pound coins if that makes sence those of you in other counteries about two inches or bit less ,,,they totaly freak me out i hate them ,,i suffer from extream anxiety anyways have for years but when this happens you can imagine whats going through my head ,,,
i know this is gross but i need to explain to help me deal with this i get a bad cramp and then i know its about to happen ,,im scared to death to go to the loo as i know what im going to have to face ,i deal with it (it comes away) then i try not to think about it but i get hot sweaty panicy light headed like im going to faint ,,i start thinking ,,whats comming next it looks so awful like part of my insides are comming away ,i guess they are but i think awful stuff ,,i dont visit my doctor as i get to nervous and just avoid it ,but ive gotten soooooooo scared now ive made an appointment foir two weeks time to talk about it ,,it usually only happens twice or so during my period on the 3rd n 4th day ,this time its been three times ,,,,,,i sound pathetic dont i ,i am sorry as i know theres people suffering worse than me on here and all over the world but i was just hopeing there may be someone with some advice and support out there for me ,my husband has been wonderful im moody one min im ripping his clothes off the next im sobbing my heart out ,,or too scared to leave the house he has to put up with so much hes so wonderful ,,,,,,,,,any one any advice please ,,,kindest thanks in advance
Milliesc
Awww, you poor thing! I'm no expert, just starting all this stuff myself. But have you seen a doctor? No sense worrying yourself- see a professional who can tell you exactly what's going on.

Hugs to you, hope you get some answers soon.
Milliesc
Oops- just re-read and saw that you have made your appointment-

I'm sorry you have to wait 2 weeks until you can be seen- hang in tehre, hopefully some women hear will have some good advice for you! Glad your hubby is being supportive-
Montana1
Razorfloss,
Welcome to Power Surge. My peridos have gotten alot lighter also with little clots. I have read here many women passing huge clots aswell. You are in great company. Keep on searching all the topics and I am sure you will feel better knowing many of us are having the very same distressing symptoms you are. Take care of your self.

Montana
razorfloss
rolleyes.gif biggrin.gif Thanyou both you loverly ladies ,for your replies ,its so nice to have a responce from ladies who have been there and/or understand ,thankfully i am nearing the end of my period now so hopefully this months worst is over ,,,Trouble is i guess ive been realy lucky up until now apart from the last year ,(always been pretty normal and regular) i guess thats why it comes as such a shocker !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! .(the anxiety doesnt help ,just gets million times worse when my periods is about to begin and during .)
so lets hope i get some answers when i see the doc ,
please ladies feel free to keep on answering or just tell me your story i will keep in touch with this site its so very helpful to read others story's
kindest thanks once again ,,with love
Lady E
Anxiety will make everything worse.I have had clots as well,and have heard other women talking about them.Mine were not very large,but any time you are that worried do check with the dr.It will ease your mind.Try to calm down,as worry does absolutely nothing for you.GOD bless.
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