Hi Jaynebod,
Mostly, you will see women in and out throughout the day in the "insta chat" located as you scroll all the way to the bottom of the page.
If you are referring to "live chat" that chat is less active but you can always pm a member and request a time to chat in "live chat" or come on down to "insta chat" anytime! and you can request a private chat with someone there also If you feel the need for a more privacy.
Take care and be well.I hope this answers your question.
Lynda