i remember the days when i had a full force libido. any time any place was fine with me. i even had high libido on zoloft (took longer to reach the big o) but i still was game. thank godness my husband is twenty years older, and it doesn't bother him. BUT IT BOTHERS ME!!!

Has anyone tried Femtest?

Duch,

Never even heard of it. Googled it and found lots of sites in German.

Is it testosterone for women?

Testosterone for women is not something I hear much about. Wouldn't it be wonderful if it came in a lollypop and made your hair lush and your skin radiant at the same time?

[quote name='Nevermore' date='Nov 20 2006, 09:56 PM' post='146465']
Duch,

Never even heard of it. Googled it and found lots of sites in German.

Is it testosterone for women?

Why am I laughing so hard right now?!!...I think that was hystercial that the only sites you found were in german.....hmmm..do I smell a 'strong' conspiracy here?

I have no sexual appetite at all these days...Thanks God my husband is too exhausted from travel and work to care as well. But thanks...he is so hard to shop for, and with Christmas right around the corner, I now know what to get him...or should I say 'give' him

My libido is lost and gone too. Its soooooo far gone I don't even want to find it. Just seems like way too much trouble.---Shelley

Yes

It's testosterone for women. I read about it on an Australian site - or I thought it was Auzzie, but when I went back to re-read it, I couldn't find it. Like you, I came up with German sites.

Now I wonder if I mis-read Austria for Australia....

I also have lost my libido It kind of scares me that i could be so un-interested in my husband even laying a hand on me. I would just rather he wouldn't. I have been mentioning it to my drs for a couple of years now (and believe me, it took quite a lot of guts for me to bring the subject up with them) and none have ever had even one suggestion or solution to that problem. It seems like it is not a life-threatening issue so they just brushed it aside. My husband knows that I have talked to the drs. about it and he said he would not force me to do anythng I did not want to do. Thank goodness for that.

I believe that it will eventually return when eveything that is going on with our bodies rights itself. While I don't think that it is a priority in our relationship right now, I do still look for ways to bring the spark back. You know what they say "If you don't use it, you will lose it ". Right now I started to take Maca pills (they are similar to ginsing ) in the hopes that they will help. I have taken those pills for about 3 weeks now and am still waiting for it to kick in.

Mine seems to have fled as well . I also don't have a lot of appetite for life in other ways. It all seems to go together.

I do have 2% compounded testosterone. It might work...subtly...it's supposed to. I take it sometimes and I do think it makes a difference. I should give it a real try, I guess, and report back. I'm always afraid of those side effects: acne...hair on face...

I try to be nice to my husband in other ways. He's easy. But it's sad not to really participate.

Hahaha- my libido must be hanging out with yours. I rarely see it. I will confess I thought it had gone for good but it's been visiting lately so I guess that's a good thing.

I think we need to talk more about this problem. It's pretty major.

I have the worst of symptoms. I *think* about sex (Scorpio, you see), but I'm still a lot more dry than is useful despite the ERT and Vagifem. Either or both should help. Guess I'm just really unlucky.

Now I'm going to start an orgasm thread. Let's see how far that goes. In a manner of speaking.