Grace
Sep 30 2001, 03:55 PM
Starting Mon, I am going to start my healthy eating plan. The biggest thing I am going to avoid is sugar. I will concentrate on fruits, veggies, lean protein and whole grain carbs with lots of fiber. I also want to get more soy in and remember to take my vitamins every day. I do have trouble remembering them and I understand that weight loss can be sabotaged if you aren't getting the right nutrients. Calcium from food and dairy is important for weight loss also. So, more calcium for me.
I am hoping that I can get rid of these few lbs that crept up since perimenopause or age or whatever. Focusing on good health will hopefully do it.
Well, I wrote it down and I am going to do it...one day at a time. I know I won't be perfect and I won't beat myself up if I goof up. Writing everything down will hopefully help me see why and how much I am eating.
Here goes!!
Grace
Grace
Sep 30 2001, 03:59 PM
Anyone care to join me on this one too?? NO pressure...just think healthy. It will go hand in hand with healthy moderate exercise. If you are concentrating on exercising, that is fine. Don't take on too many things at once. I am hoping this is a good place again to post the good things we do for ourselves. It would be great to see if you get those 5 fruits and veggies in a day...7 to 9 would be better, but hey, you have to make small changes.
To one day at a time...
Grace
Grace
Oct 1 2001, 03:41 PM
I guess I will post to myself...I am doing OK today and feeling good after exercising. I always feel like I have power over food after exercising. Brunch was good and now I am going to have fruit and yogurt. Dinner will be whole wheat pasta, chicken and vegetables. Now to stick to the menu.
I wish I could keep this feel good feeling through the day. It would be so easy to stick to this. Positive vibes to all!!
Grace
HSpec
Oct 1 2001, 08:57 PM
Grace, sure hope you can join us on Wed at 5 for our weight chat. The important thing is to keep it slow and easy with no pressure. The idea of eating healthy as opposed to dieting is a good start. Also don't obsess about all of this. Gradually make it a part of your daily life.Take care and be safe.H
jeanne
Oct 1 2001, 09:46 PM
If you can do it long enough (eat right) , it becomes second nature. I have been off sugar and fats for many, many months now and when I shop now it is almost easy to just walk by the wrong meats and baked goodsThe sugarless cookies, and ice cream, fat free/sugar free puddings all are so good now. I still do allow myself a treat now and then. Every 6 weeks I have a donut and coffee when I take my cholesterol test.

It's my reward to myself for being a good girl , heehee. I had that today since I had the test this morning. Hope it went well so I can keep up the incentive.So stick with it no matter how much you want that candy . Dearest told me a long time ago to just stop eating sweets and you won't want them as much. And it really works. You really can stop the sugar craving. It was just like quitting smoking. I just stopped buying the stuff. If it isn't in the house , you can't eat it :)Got to go ride my bike now . Let me know how you're doing :)hugs, jeanne
HSpec
Oct 1 2001, 10:02 PM
Jeanne,I also treat myself after my bi-monthly blood test. For me I go to the local diner for the best pancakes in town.You are quite right about all of this becoming second nature. I no longer think of myself as being on a diet. I think of myself as a healthy eater.One of the best things my doc told me was that you know you will cheat. If you plan when you cheat you can better manage your eating habits and the cheat will not cause any damage.I don't feel deprived of anything. From power surge I learned about revival. I know have a chocolate shake every other day (vanilla is the alternate days) Made with skim milk, it takes care of my chocolate craving. Healthy chocolate. Doesn't get much better than that.Be safe.H
jeanne
Oct 1 2001, 11:09 PM
hi Hspec,My inbetween donut treat is double chocolate fatfree/sugarfree frozen yougurt or icecream . I don't know how they do it but they can make that stuff taste sooooo good.

But like that joke says-how much healthy choice can you eat before it is no longer a healthy choice? :biggrin: Nah, one bowl does it really , lolhugs, jeanne
Grace
Oct 3 2001, 12:34 PM
Hi!! I agree with healthy eating becoming a habit. When I am away from home and don't eat "right", I sure do feel it. Is anyone ready to sprout feathers from eating so much white meat chicken?? Good thing I like fish and chicken.
I am still putting emphasis on eating right...I went over board a little yesterday...but it was all healthy choices. I am not going to beat myself up for eating too much.
Good job ladies...glad you enjoy your treats. It would be so boring to constantly deprive yourself.
Hugs...Grace
SylvryMoon
Oct 3 2001, 04:37 PM
Grace,Hope we're on for the weight chat today at 5!! (it's 4:30 now).
I've been eating healthier since Sept 11th - for obvious reasons. My silly little reasons for pampering myself with chocolate, ice cream, potato chips, all kind of faded away in the light of the horrible events of that day. Silly reasoning - my problems are "my" problems. But the reality is, I'm much more spiritual than I was 3 weeks ago - and as such, am feeding my body wholesome foods. And ya know what?! My pants are looser! Maybe there's a secret there - in finding peace within ourselves, and letting our eating problems resolve themselves within that peace. It might not hold true for me tomorrow, but it's true today - and today is all I've got.
jeanne
Oct 3 2001, 06:55 PM
I just love chicken and fish anyway, but have even more reason to now. Since eating all that chicken I lay my own eggs - saving me a bundle of cash . :biggrin:
hugs, crazy jeanne
Snowbird
Oct 4 2001, 09:18 AM
:biggrin:No Comment:biggrin:
Hugs, from chicken little.....errr...I mean...Skinny chicken:biggrin: Just watch that chicken....eatin it, I mean;)
:cheesy: There isn't enough meat on my bones for a good meal!! Yuk!! Yuk!!((((Silly Goose))))
Grace
Oct 4 2001, 12:38 PM
Thanks for the chuckle!! Had chicken for dinner last night (again) so you are safe snowy!!
I am a different person since 9/11 also, Sylry. It put a whole new perspective on things. Unfortunately, it didn't stop my eating...just made it worse. It seemed like such a trivial thing to think about. But, healthy eating was always there in the background...just too much volume.
Keep up the good work and the attitudes, all!!
Dearest
Oct 6 2001, 08:08 PM
I think we're all different since Sept. 11th. Perspectives have changed. What's really important has come into play. At the same time is the dichotomy of wanting to make changes to cope with what seems to almost be a new culture that's developing - a new society. But, there's still that underlying stress that's very hard to shake.
I was all prepared to start off fresh in October, but was side-tracked by my folks' fire (as some of you may have read about on the Board About Nothing/Birthdays topic (God knows how it got in there). After Sunday through Friday night until my brother arrived from England, everything fell on my head. My eating schedule was non-extant. I grabbed something to eat when I got home late at night -- and it was usually the wrong thing. Comfort food.
I no longer "want" to get with this program. I "must" with a capital "M." Barring any unforeseen events, I hope to be at next Wednesday's weight chat at 5 PM. I need a lot of support in this area.
Thanks for sharing all your stories. I think we can do this together like we do everything else in Power Surge!
Hugs,
Dearest
HSpec
Oct 6 2001, 08:15 PM
Dearest,We are totally and completely here for you. We look forward to you joining us on Wednesday. Bring your journal, if you have been keeping one. No matter what we will all work together to shed the pounds and anxiety of this new world order.Be safe and be well.H
MaryO
Oct 7 2001, 12:07 AM
Does keeping a journal in a computer program (LifeForm) count? Should I print it out first? I just started today - again.
I'll try to stay awake for the chat - that's my normal daily nap time!
NancyV
Oct 7 2001, 08:40 AM
Hi,
I just wanted to say that the Potatoes Not Prozac program has you journalling also. When you do this you can see how you feel from "slips." What I am finding is that when I don't eat sugar and that when I do eat something I feel the results very strongly.
I had depression last week from eating even sugarfree pie because I actually had a up reaction to it then a down because I had too many carbs at once and with no protein with it.
The PNP explains what is going on in our brain chemistry to have this happen...combination of low serotonin, low endorphins, and low blood sugar.
This program is a gradual approach to getting off sugar. You have seven steps and by the time you get to getting off sugar you feel better to do it. You learn to journal and eat breakfast with protein and protein at other meals before you attempt to cut sugar.
This program eliminates carb cravings where you don't want the sugary things. If you don't crave them, it's not as hard.
You may lose weight but mostly they believe you should feel better first to enable you to make the better choices. For me it takes the mystery out of why I have struggled with carb cravings...and that carb cravings and depression are linked for me.
HSpec
Oct 7 2001, 09:02 AM
Mary, Keeping a journal on the computer works. Whatever is easiest for you. Printing it out would be helpful since we can discuss your journal while in the Wed. chat. Sure hope you can make it. Be safe and be well. H
HSpec
Oct 7 2001, 09:09 AM
Nancy,I learned about keeping a journal from my internist and my nutritionist. It helps me to control my diabetes.What I am curious about, in terms of what you are learning from PNP, is: (how bad is this grammar) besided eliminating sugar are you also eliminating complex carbs? If so, how do you maintain a balanced diet? I do understand the biochemistry that you discussed and it makes sense. I know for myself that low blood sugar causes me to have bouts (small though they are) of depression and brain fog. Twenty minutes after having 4 ounces of apple juice this conditions clears. Now I know for me this is all a result of the diabetes and my need to maintain a certain blood sugar level. How does this work for you? Hope you don't mind my asking.Be safe and be well.H
NancyV
Oct 7 2001, 12:18 PM
Hspec,
You eat complex carbs because they are important. You just work on eliminating the refined ones.
It's a healthy diet in that you eat protein with all meals...not an excessive amount....complex carbs and some fruit but not a lot. You eat whole grains not refined ones. It is very healthy but the founder of this says timing of the proteins and carbs is important to keep you level.
These are the steps of the program which are done gradually which you master one at a time:
7 Easy Steps to Heal Sugar Addiction:
l. Eating breakfast with protein...creates blood sugar stability, wakes up your brain, and sets the stage for healing.
2. Journaling...teaches you how to read your body and adjust the rhythm and pace of your program to your own body and lifestyle.
3. Three meals a day with protein...maintains blood sugar stability andhelps increase serotonin levels.
4. Having your vitamins and a nightly potato...increases your serotonin levels the next step to help you "just say no."
5. Shfiting from white to brown...foods gives your body the positive effects of carbohydrates without activating cravings. (complex carbs)
6. Taking out the sugar...reduces cravings by eliminating beta-endorphin priming. No cravings means no addictive behavior.
7. Getting a life...teaches you behaviors to increase beta-endorphin in a healthy way, and to find radiance.
This is very general but the books Potatoes Not Prozac explains the chemistry of our struggles with carbs.
HSpec
Oct 7 2001, 04:25 PM
Nancy,Thanks for all the info. It's quite interesting and very similar to the advice I got from my doc and nutritionist. The two main differences are: I can't have the nightly potato because it does negatively impact on my blood sugar. I don't have carbs of any kind after my late afternoon snack-which is my revival shake. The other is that I have 5-6 small meals a day. This helps to better maintain a steadier blood sugar level throughout the day. This is important for managing the diabetes. The rest of the points I do follow. I think it basically comes down to finding a nutritional plan that works for you and your body. We are all individuals and what works for one might not work for another. With that being said, there are basic nutritional elements to all plans that are healthy and safe. Again, thanks for the info.Be safe and be well.H
NancyV
Oct 7 2001, 07:06 PM
Hspec,
Did you have problems with your blood sugar in which you felt tired or had reactions the years before you were diagnosed with diabetes? My test always come out negative for diabetes.....it runs in my family pretty strongly.
I do know one person who has diabetes but never felt bad beforehand....does this make sense? I feel bad in response to certain carbs and my numbers show I don't have diabetes.
Your program sounds good for your situation.
I think from what I read that some people eat such bad meals that they feel so bad that any change even remotely like the PNP is a step in the right direction. But once you have diabetes you HAVE to eat very healthfully.
Have appreciated your input on this...
Grace
Oct 7 2001, 08:51 PM
Hello, All...My new beginning didn't last very long. I got discouraged when I saw the scale (yikes) go up a lb. This is with eating "healthy". Time to rethink again. I relaxed this weekend and tried to recharge my batteries.
Of course I am starting again Monday. I will continue to follow the healthy eating plan and exercise at least 5 days a week. I realized my plan is very similar to NancyV's post.
See you here tomorrow. I am still "rethinking" and working on my attitude towards myself.
Grace
NancyV
Oct 7 2001, 09:21 PM
Grace,
Don't be discouraged. I think I have heard somewhere that sometimes your body gains two pounds of excess water to get rid of one pound of fat. In other words, the weight gain is temporary as part of losing. Has anyone else read that anywhere....? Maybe we should only weigh once a month to get a more accurate reading of what the general trend is....otherwise, go by how your clothes are fitting.
Then I think we sometimes have to even cut down on the good and healthy complex carbs as well....and that is individual in how low that is. I just don't want to have to cut out foods that contribute to my wellbeing and general heatlh which is like winning the battle but losing the war.
I have had people tell me recently that I look like I have lost some and I have not lost weight, but over the last year I have been doing more resistance with weights so I must be firmer or built some muscle. Still I would love to shed some serious pounds....
I understand how frustrating it can be when you are trying to do it right....hang in there. :)
HSpec
Oct 8 2001, 10:34 AM
Nancy, Diabetes also runs in my family-specifically my Mom. She lived very successfully with it for over 50 years after she was diagnosed. She is my role model. As for me, I had no symptoms. I went for my annual physical and the diagnosis was made after the blood test results came back. March 13, 2000 is a date I won't forget. The short version is that I got my act together and after two months, with the help of my husband, my son, my internist, a nutritionist, a physical trainer and my therapist I had a program in place for me to follow. I am extremely proud of myself that I have the diabetes under control with no meds, just diet and exercise. Over the course of that first year I lost 40 pounds and have kept off 35 of those pounds. I see my doctor every other month so he can monitor how I am doing. As you can see I am not doing this alone. I have created a support system for myself to deal with this specific aspect of my life. My husband and son are the best. My doc is just wonderful. When I gained back the five pounds and felt really upset about that he pointed out to me that muscle does weigh more than fat and it is most likely a weight gain from my increase in muscle mass and not fat accumulation. I feel better and stronger as a result of all of this. As I have said before, it is important for a person to find what works for them. Clearly the PNP program is working for you and that is the most important thing. We know ourselves the best and how we react to certain things. What might be a healthy course for one might not be for another. Thanks for all that you have shared. It has helped me as well.Be safe and be well.H
HSpec
Oct 8 2001, 10:40 AM
Grace, What Nancy said. Don't get discouraged. It's not a matter of starting over. It's a matter of maybe slightly modifying your plan. However, a one pound weight gain is no big deal at all. I would say stick with what you are doing. Remember, you are a very physically active person. You are eating healthy and exercising all the time. This is a healthy life style. Instead of looking at the scale, look at the way you feel. Do you have energy, do you feel comfortable in your clothes, do you feel comfortable in your skin? Are you, overall, happy with yourself? We are all here for you.Be safe and be well.H
Grace
Oct 9 2001, 09:23 PM
Hi...well, it is 2 days of not staying on program with the eating. Again I ate healthy, but ate too much. I am now reading DR Northrups chapter on nutrition and I am going to see what she has to say. So far I like what I am seeing. I like the theory of eating what you really want early in the day, within reason, to help stop cravings later. I wil try to read it all before tomorrow.
Thanks Nancy and HSpec...I am hanging in there.
Grace
HSpec
Oct 9 2001, 09:40 PM
Grace,See my reply at the weight chat thread.H
NancyV
Oct 9 2001, 09:50 PM
Grace,
I think Christiane Northrup endorses the PNP approach too. Somehow from my experience with this, eating protein at breakfast helps to keep on track the rest of the day....never would have thought just this one thing would help so much but it does. I just feel better from the beginning than having a bagel and jelly which quickly makes me tired and not as motivated.
What did Christiane say in the article you mention about having what you want first? Just curious....
jeanne
Oct 9 2001, 10:26 PM
Boy you all better explain that fast about eating what you want to early in the day, cause I'm chompin' at the bit to go get a whole dozen donuts.:shocked:Hugs and hoping , jeanne :biggrin:
NancyV
Oct 10 2001, 07:21 AM
LOL Jeanne!!!! :biggrin:
~~~~~~~about to fly out to see what goodies I can find...~~~~~~~
Georgia Dove
Grace
Oct 10 2001, 02:52 PM
HSpec, I saw your post. Thanks.
Dr Northrup meanst that if you really want a piece of chocolate, have it, but make sure it is the good kind, have a piece and savor it. She also thinks you should eat your "good" carbs between 10 am and 4 pm. That is as far as I got.
Also, no distractions while you are eating...no TV, reading, etc. Do not talk with food in your mouth...if you want to talk swallow and put your fork down. Eat until satisfied...not stuffed. Do not DIET!!
Protein is very important at every meal. No eating 3 hours before bedtime.
I will post more after I read it. It does make a lot of sense.
See you later.
Grace
Grace
Oct 10 2001, 02:54 PM
OH, if I am late to chat is because I walked to my neighbor's whose husband (FDNY) has been missing since 9/11 at the WTC. I just found out yesterday and I want to go see her. The last time I saw them was at church before I left for Charlotte and somehow never heard or saw her recently.
Bye for now.
Grace
Grace
Oct 12 2001, 07:02 PM
Hi! Hope you all had a productive week with eating healthy. I did eat healthy but did eat a little too much (as usual). Of course, there was no weight loss...still maintaining.
Have a good weekend and I will see you Monday. Just keep thinking healthy and use moderation and we should be able to start the week off right with no regrets.
See you then.
Grace
Dearest
Oct 17 2001, 04:07 PM
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Grace
Oct 17 2001, 07:09 PM
Started a new beginning this week...I am now trying to Somersize. I have to do something to jumpstart this weight loss. Turkey day will be here before we know it and the holiday eating will officially start. It seems to be downhill (or should I say uphill?) after Thanksgiving. Holiday stress seems to get to a lot of us. I realized there will be some less stress this year. I plan to stay out of the malls since there are threats that malls will be hit. No sending cards out with the Anthrax mailings. So, there are 2 excuses for me not to do something I don't want to.
Taking it one day at a time and have gone 3 days now without any sugar and cut down on carbs a lot. I will give it a week and see if I see any results.
Anyone else out there using Oct as a new beginning??
Grace
MaryO
Nov 11 2001, 02:23 PM
Today is going to be my "New Beginnings" day! I haven't eaten anything yet, so my next move is going to be a "brunch" of Revival (mixed with milk, pineapple and a banana). Then a lightish dinner. I'm going to rev up my computer program that keeps track of the calories, fat, fiber, Weight Watcher points, nutrients, and a lot of life-type stuff like journaling, exersize, and "feelings".
I hurt my shoulder a few days ago fixing the cable box on our TV so I'm not going to go to the gym today, but I am going to dust of one of the zillion or so exercise tapes I've accumulated and try to do an easy one that doesn't involve much shoulder movement.
Here's to Day One!
HSpec
Nov 11 2001, 07:01 PM
Mary, Your are exuding such positive vibes and energy! It is so fantastic. You have my total support. Sure hope your shoulder is feeling better. I love the idea that you are not letting the bum shoulder get in the way of your exercise. Way to go! Let me know if I can help you in any way. Be safe and be well. H
athenea
Nov 11 2001, 08:02 PM
Hi girls (we're still girls ha-ha).
Well there's nothing better than positive energy and new beginnings sound just great to me.
It's nice and warm here now, so no more excuses - I've bought some new trainers and I'm off to the park (walking) round the boating lake circuit. I really need toning up, that together with healthy eating.
Hope your shoulder isn't hurting Mary and HS, I'll see if I can get into the chat and see you Wednesday.
Chau,Barbiexxxxxxxxxxx
Kalanie
Nov 12 2001, 01:07 AM
Hi Barbie.... sorry to be so dumb, but what are "trainers"? I keep reading your post over and over but can only figure that it might be shoes (from context). Is that it? My curiosity is killing me! :biggrin:
athenea
Nov 12 2001, 11:05 AM
Vickie - Hi!! How are you? :smile:
Yes, you're right , trainers are sports shoes (Adidas and the like) - you might not use that word in the States and I only learnt it from when I was in England - and now, I'm curious about what you call them there.
Nice to see you here, I always look forward to your posts.
Kisses,Barbiexxxxxxxx
MaryO
Nov 12 2001, 01:14 PM
I call mine "running shoes" although I can't remember the last time I ran

I think that people call them Nikes, whether they are or not.
HSpec
Nov 12 2001, 08:44 PM
I call mine sneakers. Goes back to when I was a youngin'. The brand my Mom bought us was Keds Sneakers. My teenage students refer to their footwear by the brand name. They think the word "sneaker" is a laugh riot.H
Kalanie
Nov 13 2001, 02:59 AM
Hi Barbie... Thanks for the definition! I think I call them running shoes also, although I am in Mary's boat with the running! :biggrin: I am doing ok, but up to my &^% in alligators at work for the past couple of weeks. I hope you are doing well yourself. Thanks for your compliment, and the same to you! :)
wildflowers
Nov 13 2001, 03:36 PM
i call them tennis shoes..why ? don't play tennis lol..daughter calls her athletic shoes..husband calls his shoes..
Gemini
Jul 1 2003, 04:23 PM
Binging up an old thread here! Nice to look back at the friendly banter with Vickie, Barbie etc

I am trying to lose weight by eating healthily, not 'dieting', and exercising more. I lost 35 pounds last year in this way. A lot has gone back on, and I am findng it HARD to get back the motivation. Weight is so hard to lose, so damned easy to regain, isn't it? I can't come to the weight chats as they begin at 2 am my time.I will try to log in at this thread more often. I need to lose a good deal, around 50 pounds maybe, and want this gone for my 50th birthday in a years time. Wish me luck!!
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