QUOTE (countryangel444 @ Aug 17 2006, 07:09 PM)

How are you feeling now? I sure hope back to your normal self.
I do have another question. I am worried about bladder drop. Do you know if this is a high risk thing that can happen after a hyst.?
Also, I have read a bit online that your first bowel movement is painful. Is this true? and urinating?
Hi Countryangel -
I'm 6-weeks post-surgery and am not yet completely back to normal. I'm still tired from the loss of blood (they were borderline giving me a transfusion, but didn't) and it takes time to build it back up. My boss has been really understanding, and I'm back at work at least part-time now. I usually go home early in the afternoon and take a nap! My brain starts to get fuzzy in the afternoon when I get tired. My tummy is puffy and tender still from the trauma of surgery, and my doctor says it may take a couple of months for that to go away. I still have a couple of stitches that you can see the ends of in my belly-button, they are supposed to dissolve away at about 6 weeks.
I don't know about bladder drop. My doctor said that your bladder gets kind of "cranky" from the surgery, and it takes a while for it to get completely back to normal. This is hard for me to tell because I had the LAVH due to large fibroids, and they were pressing on my bladder and making me feel like I had to urinate all the time. So now, I don't feel like I have to urinate all the time, but it's almost like I have to remind myself, whoops, it's lunchtime, better go to the bathroom.
I was able to urinate as soon as they took out the urinary catheter (the morning after surgery) and it was not painful. There was a slight amount of blood or a reddish tinge to the urine. At first it seemed like I was urinating very slowly, or it took a while to complete, but the nurses said that was due to swelling from the surgery, and it went away in a couple of days. As for the bowel, expect to have some gas, although I didn't have too much, and although I am very regular and always have been, I didn't have a bowel movement until 2 or 3 days after surgery. The nurse said that was normal. It wasn't really painful, but I would recommend taking Colase (not a laxative, it's a stool softener) that my Dr. recommended to make it easier. I also found that having a small pillow to hold on my stomach made it much more comfortable to sneeze, blow your nose, cough, etc. They recommend that you have one to hold on your stomach under the seat belt when you go home, and it is a good idea.
All in all, it wasn't as bad as I expected, and I have several other complicating conditions (diabetes, rheumatoid arthritis, hypothyroidism, high blood pressure) and it when fine for me. You'll do fine! You're doing the most important thing, that is educating yourself about what to expect!