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[denni]

hi everyone I am from Adelaide Australia and have been searching for ages for that perfect site to discuss my menopause issues, there is so much great reading here and support. looking forward to so great discussions

[Vaylorie]

Hello to all you wonderful ladies who have already helped me so much with what I have been dealing with alone for a very long time!!
I'm 47, married with no chilren. I have so many issues I cannot begin to explain to myself let alone to others! I know I have felt alone in this world for the past two years. All the wonderful information here has already helped me to find a much needed smile of relief!!

Thanks again for all who have offered their time and support!
Sincerely,
Vaylorie

[soul survivor]

Hello everyone,
So glad i found this site. Now I can vent to my hearts content since my family and friends are fed up
of listening to me complain about menopause.
I have been postmenopausal for almost five years now and still have many issues
that are still making my life pure hell. Actually I have become debilitated to the
point of not being able to work at the present time. Since I am a single person this
is now posing a lot of problems....like I don't have enough do deal with all these horrid symptoms.
I became perimenopausal when I was 42, I am now 55.This whole experience has been a complete
nightmare that has totally ruined my life. Needless to say I have tried many many avenues to
help myself through this ordeal....in the end nothing works...
However I still have hope that one day I will either find something to alleviate all this
suffering or it will run it's course. Everyday I search for something new to give me hope..
and now I have all of you...at least I'm not alone anymore

be well

[Stellaluna]

Hi everybody!
Can't say how very happy I am to have found this site!!!!
I am turning 40 in December and am pretty sure that I started peri-menopause about 3 years ago. So many weird changes going on with me, and too many people telling me I'm too young to be experiencing peri menopausal symptoms!!!
Can't wait to venture in and hopefully get some answers to all my questions!
Insted of the Big Change they should call it the Big Secret!!!

[nanny_joann]

My name is Jo, I live in West Central Illinois and am so relieved to have found this site. I'm 46, have 1 grown daughter, 2grandchildnre and another on the way. I guess I'm in peri? but I dont really know for how long. All I know is my symptoms are severe in my opinion, and I have some I had never even heard of before. Now finally, I'm reading that others have had the same not-as-common symptoms as I am, although I'm still reading, looking for a few more to have in common with someone else.
Thank you so much for this community, at least if I have to feel like I'm from another planet, I have the comfort of knowing "we're everywhere".

[TLP]

Hello all,
I’ve spent the last couple of days just reading the boards here.

I stumbled onto the site thru a “Google” search for a just luuvuuuurley new “meno-symptom” that showed up a couple of days ago.
Hate to see that what I am going thru is S.O.P. for so many women, but good to know I’m not losing my mind and I’m not alone.

[CAM04]

Hello,

Just found this site a few minutes ago. But, from the few postings I've read so far, looks like this is where I need to be.
I was diagnosed as peri when I was 38. I'm 47 now, and I do believe I have passed from the peri stage into the land of oz. It's like an alien has taken over my body, and I'm just along for the ride.

Let me apologize right now. I know I will offend or alienate someone, probably much soon than I care to think. For some odd reason, it's what I do these days. I don't really mean to, it just sorta happens. My hubby, my children, and my employees can attest to that. So, I'm sorry. Forgive me, I really don't mean it.........

Anyway, I'm here because I need a friend. It's really, really lonely right now, in the land of oz..........

[KottonSox]

Hi,

My name is Kathryn and I am so pleased to find this fantastic forum about perimenopausal.

I have just turned 41. I have four young children and I lovely husband.

Unfortunately, I have no one to talk to about how I feel. Just having the reassurance that you are not dying or going mad helps.

We moved to Spain almost two years ago, and soon after baby number 4 arrived.

Since then, I am not longer the confident and independant woment I used to be. I started having (what I now realise) panic attacks and anxiety.

I am sure to give more info soon.

Kathryn

[Lorilooo]

Hi, I'm Lori. I just found this site about 3 weeks ago and have been reading and reading. What a blessing this site is! I have already had so many questions answered! I'm 50 and I've been going through peri for at least a couple of years now. However, recently, symptoms have been kicking in one after another, especially in the emotional category. I'm getting so I don't recognize the old me anymore. I'm just trying to take this journey one day at a time and keep my sense of humor, which helps a lot! It feels really good to be able to visit this site and 'feel the love' so to speak.

Lori

[Obscurium]

Hello everyone! My name is Jo, I'm an ex-pat Brit living in Georgia, USA. I'm 48 and started perimenopausal symptoms this last year when my normally regular cycle went haywire! I'm divorced, have 3 brilliant and amazing children and a terrific boyfriend. I work for a domestic airline in reservations and love my work! Looking forward to getting to know you all - this looks like a great board and I've already got some really useful tips and info!

[Dearest]

A very WARM WELCOME to the newest members
who have introduced themselves in this topic.

Before you jump right into the board discussions, I strongly recommend
you to take a few minutes to
READ THIS NEWCOMERS MESSAGE
to help familiarize you with the board and site.

This message board is just one area of an enormous, multi award-winning Web site with a
wealth of information. You can visit any area of the site by clicking on the
"Power Surge Quick Links" drop down menu at the top of each page, or the message board,
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Thank you!

Again, a warm welcome to Power Surge to women in all phases of their transitional years,
and to the men, children, friends and others in their lives
who want to gain a better understanding of what menopause is about.

I can promise you one thing . . .
if you felt alone before finding Power Surge . . .
you won't feel alone any longer

Dearest
Power Surge Founder

[miking]

Hello All... My name is Michele, am 32 years old and had a hysterectomy at age 25. I struggle every single day of my life, not for the fact that I'm going through "the change" motions, but because NO ONE listens! I'm extremely frustrated and need help. I have great hopes that someone, just someone has some advice and support. I've not done this such thing before, it's all new to me. After struggling for so long with menopause and doctors that can't relate, I'm on a mission to heal myself. I sure hope that I've found the right place.

[slo66]

Hi everyone. Nice to come to these boards and meet women going through the same things you are. Makes me feel less crazy and like there will be a light at the end of the tunnel through this wierd rollercoaster ride. Thank you!

[Merilee]

Hello.My name is Merilee.
I started my journey at the age of 38 naturally.I didnt know what was going on with my body.I knew I couldnt be pregnant because you have to have had sex for that and that was far from my mind at the time,no desire whatsoever.I would have a period every other month for 5 months then miss for 4,then back for a month and so on.I didnt go to the dr right away but then decided I better.I dont like drs.The dr told me that I wasnt considered menopausal till I have stoppped having my period for 6 months.By this time I had missed 5,what are the chances of having one now I thought.Sure enough,bam,had another one.So when I had missed for another 5 months I went to a specialist and he told me I was officially in menopause.The look on his face when I asked him for my Certificate.He said,what?I said my certificate that says I have the right to whine,bitch and cry & complain at any given time.He didnt laugh.
I am now 50 and looking back have not had too bad of a ride till just recently.I have had to sleep with a fan in the room all year round,the odd flash,a little anxiety but didnt really have too hard of a time till now.I am not working because I cant cope with being around people.I was in customer service.I dont like going out of my house and I get panic attacks so bad.I cry for no reason and it gets embarressing.I could handle most of what I was experiencing except how I was with my hubby.I feel as though I have put him through hell and he dosnt deserve it.He is a good guy and he is trying to cope with his Glaucoma.I will need to be there for him when/if he loses his sight completely and I cant even deal with me.I need to get better for both of us.I need to get a job and keep it so we can grow old together.He is the reason I am considering taking meds for.I dont even like to take aspirin for a headache.But I am soooooo confused as to what to do.I dont have a dr at the moment and even if I did I'm scared to go.From what I have read about some meds Im afarid to try any and will the dr be very helpful anyways or just want to hand me a Rx for something that will give me cancer.So Im thinking of trying menosense or something to that effect.
I am so glad to have found this site,I dont feel alone in this and I dont feel as though Im going insane anymore.

[Gatorgal]

Hello Everyone! Glad I found this site.

[OceanSilver]

Hi, so glad that this forum is here. I am Cheryl and am 48. So many new symptoms have arisen like the oh so screwy periods, heavy and constant then spotty. Dr. gave me a RX for Aygestin but I am so leary with all the side effects, so I have not filled it yet. It is good to know that there are so many of you all out there that are willing to share and give the rest of us a measure of comfort during this crappy time.

OceanSilver

[Momofzoo]

Hi from Momofzoo.

I didn't realize that my shakiness that I have been experiencing is a sign of perimenopause. It's been scaring me for awhile. I thought I had circulation or heart issues! I'm 46, I had my last child at 38 and I have hot flashes from 7:00 to about 9:00 am every morning and about 9:30 to 10:30 every night. They go from my neck up and I sweat down. I am looking forward to understanding more about this stage of life. I do not have a mother or sisters to guide me so I am hoping that this forum will. It bites to have both a period and hot flashes . . . c'mon one or the other . . . but both!

I'm glad I'm not alone.

[sehlat]

Hi from Corvallis, Oregon USA,

I too have been going through hell for the past ten or twelve years with my menopause and decided that it would be great to share my experiences, the knowledge I've learned and to continue my education from others. It has been very trying to deal with the crazy symptoms that have taken over my body and it will be great to discuss things with a community that has had many of the same experiences.

[Disneybride]

wow what a great site~ Thank you. Well my name is Tracy. I am 39. I went through menopause at 36. I have tons of questions I am sure that will be answered here as my dr. is a moron. so now off to read and read and read stuff on the site.
Glad to be here!
Thank you again!

[MaryBeth1024]

Hello all,
I am 48 and probably have had really heavy periods for way over a year. My last period was in August and I've had the flashes, dizziness, haven't been the nicest person lately and this weight gain is killing me!

Glad to know I am not alone!

Mary Beth

[MaryBeth]

Hello all,
I am 48 and probably have had really heavy periods for way over a year. My last period was in August and I've had the flashes, dizziness, haven't been the nicest person lately and this weight gain is killing me!

Glad to know I am not alone!

Mary Beth

Hi MaryBeth1024,

Welcome!

I'm sorry you have not been feeling well. We have all been there - you are not alone. That's for certain.
Hugs!
Mary Beth

[sallyg38]

Hi,

My name is Sally and I see theres a lot of people here too.
I am 38 and all these strange things are happening and I'm not happy at ALL.
I'm sweaty and my Secret Antipersperant doesn't work and my hair is falling out.
I feel all hot then cold and I think I am sick. My periods are ok - but BOY they hurt
more than before I had my son. But that was a long time ago.

My family doesn't know. I keep it all to myself then
I just cry and lose my temper at the worst times. Dinner time is awful,
I feel so awful and my heart is beating so hard when I cook dinner.

I work part time in a card store, the boss is a Grump.
She has all this fancy stuff she wants me to do and fix the windows
and WASH them and all I want to say is
I DO THAT AT HOME. The pay is stupid. I don't even get a lunch break
cuz she says I only work part time. So I'm always hungry.

Dinner is over tonight and that is when my son ( he's 14) drives me crazy.
He wants to go out with his friends and I can't tell him no or he just leaves.
I'm a single parent, (don't even ask!) and so I'm up all night until he comes home.

Boy that is not a good way to start here. But that is my life. At 38, I feel 80.

I hope you are all nice people, cuz I'm pretty upset.

Sally

[michuganna]

Hi,

My name is Sally and I see theres a lot of people here too.
I am 38 and all these strange things are happening and I'm not happy at ALL.
I'm sweaty and my Secret Antipersperant doesn't work and my hair is falling out.
I feel all hot then cold and I think I am sick. My periods are ok - but BOY they hurt
more than before I had my son. But that was a long time ago.

My family doesn't know. I keep it all to myself then
I just cry and lose my temper at the worst times. Dinner time is awful,
I feel so awful and my heart is beating so hard when I cook dinner.

I work part time in a card store, the boss is a Grump.
She has all this fancy stuff she wants me to do and fix the windows
and WASH them and all I want to say is
I DO THAT AT HOME. The pay is stupid. I don't even get a lunch break
cuz she says I only work part time. So I'm always hungry.

Dinner is over tonight and that is when my son ( he's 14) drives me crazy.
He wants to go out with his friends and I can't tell him no or he just leaves.
I'm a single parent, (don't even ask!) and so I'm up all night until he comes home.

Boy that is not a good way to start here. But that is my life. At 38, I feel 80.

I hope you are all nice people, cuz I'm pretty upset.

Sally

Welcome Sally,
You have a way with words, I know you are having a hard time but you did make me chuckle (is that terrible?). I know how you feel about your teenage son I have one of them too. When you are going through these feelings it takes all you have to hold it together and it's like they know it, they know you just don't have the energy. But, I will tell you that you don't want to let it get too out of hand (mine is 16) and sounds very similar in personality to yours. It's been an up and down battle. He is generally a good kid but we have our issues. I cannot let my guard down for a minute with him, gotta keep the communication lines open with these kids. You are youngish but from reading posts on this board it appears there are many women your age going through the hormonal issues. I'm a bit older than you but mine started in my early 40's (I'm 50 now) and hit with a vengence this year. My main issues were health anxiety and anxiety in general and just fearful feelings of dread and all the aches and pains that the horror-mones had to offer. I finally tried several AD's (anti depressants) and found one (Pristiq) that appears to be helping me greatly. It's been a month, time will tell. Keep coming back here, there are great women on this board, several that have become friends to me. I find the people on this forum to be down to earth, real, honest and caring and very very smart. You will get a lot of comfort and information to help you make sense of the changes you are going through. Take care and try and get some sleep. Make that son of yours come home by 9:00pm at the very least, lol. I know easier done than said with strong willed kids. Mich

[Dearest]

A very WARM WELCOME to the newest members
who have introduced themselves in this topic.

Before you jump right into the board discussions, I strongly recommend
you to take a few minutes to
READ THIS NEWCOMERS MESSAGE
to help familiarize you with the board and site.

This message board is just one area of an enormous, multi award-winning Web site with a
wealth of information. You can visit any area of the site by clicking on the
"Power Surge Quick Links" drop down menu at the top of each page, or the message board,
OR by clicking on the links on the MENU on every page of the Web site.

THIS TOPIC IS FOR INTRODUCTIONS ONLY.
PLEASE DO NOT REPLY TO THE INTRODUCTIONS HERE.
CLICK HERE TO CHOOSE FROM THE MANY FORUMS
available to discuss any subject you wish.
Thank you!

Again, a warm welcome to Power Surge to women in all phases of their transitional years,
and to the men, children, friends and others in their lives
who want to gain a better understanding of what menopause is about.

I can promise you one thing . . .
if you felt alone before finding Power Surge . . .
you won't feel alone any longer

Dearest
Power Surge Founder