Terrible discomfort...... Options

[Michah Hadley]

Hi there,

Well its time to put away my catholic, private school upbringing and start asking the tough questions.......phew!! Has anyone experienced such intense orgasms that they have vomited? I am perimenopausal and when my partner and I would like to be intimate, this is a brick wall! Other than the fact that I have no libido. I also experience abdominal pain and this is not through intercourse(please don't make me spell it out!). We have decided that we cannot really have foreplay as the vomiting kind of puts us off, so we bought stocks in KY lubricant.
I have heard that orgasm can intensify in this time, but this bad?

Cheers.

[ladybugs]

SOUNDS TO ME LIKE YOU HAVE PELVIC FLOOR AND ABDOMINAL MUSCLES THAT ARE TOO TIGHT AND WHEN YOU ORGASM IT MAKES IT TEN TIMES WORSE. I WOULD GANDER A VISIT TO THE CHIROPRACTOR. EVEN THOUGH IT IS A MUSCLE ISSUE...IT CAN ALSO INVOLVE THE SPINAL (TRUST ME ON THIS ONE!). IT CAN WORK WONDERS! YOU COULD ALSO TALK TO YOUR DOC ABOUT PERHAPS A MILD MUSCLE RELAXER ABOUT AN HOUR BEFORE SEX. MAY MELLOW THEM OUT ENOUGH!

[Michah Hadley]

SOUNDS TO ME LIKE YOU HAVE PELVIC FLOOR AND ABDOMINAL MUSCLES THAT ARE TOO TIGHT AND WHEN YOU ORGASM IT MAKES IT TEN TIMES WORSE. I WOULD GANDER A VISIT TO THE CHIROPRACTOR. EVEN THOUGH IT IS A MUSCLE ISSUE...IT CAN ALSO INVOLVE THE SPINAL (TRUST ME ON THIS ONE!). IT CAN WORK WONDERS! YOU COULD ALSO TALK TO YOUR DOC ABOUT PERHAPS A MILD MUSCLE RELAXER ABOUT AN HOUR BEFORE SEX. MAY MELLOW THEM OUT ENOUGH!

Cheers, ladybugs. I do have a wonderful chiropractor as I have mild scoliosis and pelvic rotation. But my skin is so sensitive that I find touching makes me feel horrendously repulsed sometimes. Not because i have a problem with him, more I am just buzzing with skin tinglies. Horrible. Once I get some hormones sorted, I can go back and see him. I have diazepam so good idea for muscle relaxer.

Thank you!!!

[ladybugs]

YOU SHOULD COME SEE MY CHIROPRACTOR...HOT HOT HOT!!! I GUARENTEE YOU WOULD WANT THIS MANS HANDS ON YOU! COOL THING IS HE PLAYS WITH MY BUTT! (IT'S A HIP ROTATION THING... BUT STILL!) MAKE SURE YOU EXPLAIN TO THE CHIRO EXACTLY (EVEN THOUGH THIS MIGHT BE EMBARASSING FOR YOU) WHAT IS GOING ON. THAT IN AND OF ITSELF WILL MAKE A DIFFERENCE. THEY ARE THERE TO HELP YOU FEEL BETTER BUT THEY MUST HAVE ALL THE FACTS. IF YOU CAN'T SAY IT TO HIS FACE, WRITE A LETTER AND MAIL IT TO HIM SO HE'S READY BY THE TIME YOU GET THERE!

[Michah Hadley]

YOU SHOULD COME SEE MY CHIROPRACTOR...HOT HOT HOT!!! I GUARENTEE YOU WOULD WANT THIS MANS HANDS ON YOU! COOL THING IS HE PLAYS WITH MY BUTT! (IT'S A HIP ROTATION THING... BUT STILL!) MAKE SURE YOU EXPLAIN TO THE CHIRO EXACTLY (EVEN THOUGH THIS MIGHT BE EMBARASSING FOR YOU) WHAT IS GOING ON. THAT IN AND OF ITSELF WILL MAKE A DIFFERENCE. THEY ARE THERE TO HELP YOU FEEL BETTER BUT THEY MUST HAVE ALL THE FACTS. IF YOU CAN'T SAY IT TO HIS FACE, WRITE A LETTER AND MAIL IT TO HIM SO HE'S READY BY THE TIME YOU GET THERE!

Thank you!! You got me laughing!! The thing is, my chiro is not so bad to look at either!!(now thats embarrassing because he also treats my mum)Ha! Will tell him eventually........just got to get out of this house to get to him. He is really good at hearing all the gories so will discuss it. The hard thing that I am trying to overcome is fear. I am so traumatised by the duration of how sick I have been feeling with no dx and no help, I am too frightened at the moment to move towards taking the drugs(HRT, antacids, mild anti-depressants et. al.) and being touched. I have had so many procedures over the last year(due to goiter) that I feel terribly vulnerable. Trying to work through the fear so I can treat myself. Double edged sword. Must help myself before anyone else can.

Thanks and sorry for rambles, ladybugs.......