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 Apr 9 2009, 06:38 PM
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Super Surgette Group: Members Posts: 138 Joined: 4-April 07 From: North of Ireland Member No.: 27,221  |
... ogling up and flirting with the hot, good-looking twentysomethings?
I love my husband dearly and wouldn't dream of cheating, but I work around a lot of younger people... and there are some HOT young men who are very easy on the eye! Recently I lost some weight and toned up and feel pretty good about myself and can't help flirting with the youngsters... makes me feel good, and curiously enough it makes for an easier working relationship too. Am I just a menopausal old woman being an embarrassment?  (I don't do it with my 21 year old son's friends though. There are some boundaries!) -------------------- Inside every older person is a young person wondering what the hell happened!
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Apr 9 2009, 07:08 PM
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Super Surgette Group: Members Posts: 694 Joined: 20-April 07 From: London UK Member No.: 27,434 |
I just don't find twenty-somethings attractive. Sure I can appreciate if they're goodlooking, but they seem like children to me, being the same age as my son. Thirty and Forty somethings are something else again!
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Apr 9 2009, 07:15 PM
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 Super Surgette Group: Members Posts: 3,032 Joined: 4-December 02 From: California Member No.: 9,279 |
Okay, okay... I own up to it!!
 But I flirt with ALL the guys I work with. I don't age discriminate 
-------------------- Leanne
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Apr 9 2009, 07:19 PM
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Senior Surgette Group: Members Posts: 93 Joined: 11-July 06 From: Washington Member No.: 23,393 |
Nope. My 22 year old son, 50 year old husband and several other males ranging in different ages have been standing on my last nerve the past several days and I am in no mood to ogle or flirt with any human that has a *third* leg. Even if they weren't irritating me, I still have no interest in young men, no matter how good they look. I prefer men closer to my age.
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Apr 9 2009, 07:25 PM
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 Super Surgette Group: Members Posts: 868 Joined: 8-September 05 From: East Texas Piney Woods Member No.: 19,494 |
OMG! I HAVE to tell you about Ben! He's about 25 years old, works at the Valvoline lube shop in town and is a customer at my mother's store. He is absolutely adorable -- about 6' tall, not fat but husky, brown hair, blue eyes, and has the most gorgeous smile. Just gives me chills of delight whenever he flashes it. WHEW! I feel like a complete pervert, but I can't help but flirt with him whenever I see him. I'm sure he's not the least bit interested, but he at least pretends it's OK. I look pretty good for my age (48 but could pass for mid-30s if I dyed my salt & pepper hair), but I'm still old enough to be his mother. I wonder if Demi Moore can give me some advice on how to be a "cougar" and snag a young stud like she did?
-------------------- Webalina
"Go as far as you can see. When you get there, you will see farther." -- Orison Marden |
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Apr 9 2009, 08:10 PM
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 Super Surgette Group: Members Posts: 790 Joined: 14-September 08 From: Connecticut, USA Member No.: 35,931 |
Please don't take this the wrong way. I, too, look and admire other attractive men, but I would never dream of flirting with any of them--young or old.
I think of how hurt I would be if my hubby flirted with a younger, firmer, perky-breasted female and that keeps my mind on business. -------------------- I am Menopausa, PeriMeno Warrior Princess!
"If it were not for the blessed fact that everything has its comic as well as tragic side, I should have lost my wits long ago." Louise May Alcott Luke 8:43-48 |
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Apr 9 2009, 08:18 PM
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Super Surgette Group: Members Posts: 1,332 Joined: 20-December 03 From: Illlinois Member No.: 13,550 |
I'm with you, book, except these days I don't think I find any of them attractive.
-------------------- I am not a doctor. My advice and opinions should not be taken as medical advice or diagnosis. They are just opinions based on extensive research and personal experience. I encourage everyone to explore all information about your health issues and discuss it with your doctor.
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Apr 9 2009, 08:19 PM
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Super Surgette Group: Members Posts: 1,332 Joined: 20-December 03 From: Illlinois Member No.: 13,550 |
Meant to add, I think my hormones are just not high enough for me to find other men attractive, even though they are helping with symptoms.
-------------------- I am not a doctor. My advice and opinions should not be taken as medical advice or diagnosis. They are just opinions based on extensive research and personal experience. I encourage everyone to explore all information about your health issues and discuss it with your doctor.
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Apr 9 2009, 08:39 PM
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Senior Surgette Group: Members Posts: 75 Joined: 30-March 08 Member No.: 32,889 |
QUOTE (leanne0721 @ Apr 9 2009, 07:15 PM)  Okay, okay... I own up to it!! But I flirt with ALL the guys I work with. I don't age discriminate I'm with Leanne!!!!!
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Apr 9 2009, 08:40 PM
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Super Surgette Group: Members Posts: 138 Joined: 4-April 07 From: North of Ireland Member No.: 27,221 |
Great responses! Especially Webalina's...
I think I still flirt with the young guys because inside my head I still feel like I'm 17. -------------------- Inside every older person is a young person wondering what the hell happened!
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Apr 9 2009, 09:26 PM
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Super Surgette Group: Members Posts: 432 Joined: 13-July 06 From: upstate New York Member No.: 23,414 |
I'll own up to it!!! I work in a school and see LOTS of cute, younger dads...my age preference is 35 and up....any younger is just too close to my son/son in law ages.....
Plus, most of them wear their baseball caps backwards and that drives me nuts  Actually have one divorced dad who comes in often and we get quite chatty to the point that the secretary teases me about it but she does admit he's quite cute Some months, when my hormones line up nicely, I can get very flirtatious!!!!! And DH gets the end results so it's a win/win! |
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Apr 9 2009, 09:28 PM
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Senior Surgette Group: Members Posts: 78 Joined: 19-November 07 From: new england Member No.: 30,346 |
i am with you completely bookworm...
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Apr 9 2009, 09:54 PM
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 Super Surgette Group: Members Posts: 1,324 Joined: 25-August 05 Member No.: 19,311 |
QUOTE (Interactive @ Apr 9 2009, 07:08 PM) I just don't find twenty-somethings attractive. Sure I can appreciate if they're goodlooking, but they seem like children to me, being the same age as my son. I feel the same.....they young'ins don't turn me on at all.... -------------------- *Worry never robs tomorrow of its sorrow, it only saps today of its joy.* ~Leo Buscaglia~ |
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 Apr 9 2009, 10:20 PM
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Super Surgette Group: Members Posts: 3,032 Joined: 4-December 02 From: California Member No.: 9,279 |
QUOTE (Bookworm56 @ Apr 9 2009, 05:10 PM) Please don't take this the wrong way. I, too, look and admire other attractive men, but I would never dream of flirting with any of them--young or old. I think of how hurt I would be if my hubby flirted with a younger, firmer, perky-breasted female and that keeps my mind on business. Just to be clear.... I flirt in front of my hubby!! I think we might have a couple different levels of flirting going on here. I would never cheat... (okay, maybe if George Clooney called I would ) and I don't touch or make sexual advances! I call the 22 year old that works with me "cutie pie" and stuff like that. I call him that IN FRONT of my hubby!
-------------------- Leanne
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Apr 10 2009, 12:21 AM
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 Senior Surgette Group: Members Posts: 96 Joined: 2-August 08 Member No.: 35,111 |
I like looking at a younger attractive male specimen, but to me now its a bit like looking at a lovely garden. I can appreciate it, admire it and enjoy looking at it but I couldn't be bothered weeding and getting grit in my fingernails.
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Apr 10 2009, 01:09 AM
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 Super Surgette Group: Members Posts: 341 Joined: 9-December 03 Member No.: 13,475 |
A few years ago, MAYBE...
Since my son hit 25, its been a no-go, for me... ICK I see twenty-somethings and think "son" all the time...( I dont know HOW MEN do it, really I dont) I've moved on to very late thirties, early forties...(flirts) Fifty year old men ..scare me
-------------------- "Starting Over"
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Apr 10 2009, 07:14 AM
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Super Surgette Group: Members Posts: 2,054 Joined: 27-July 08 From: Amman Jordan Member No.: 35,023 |
QUOTE (moonlight @ Apr 10 2009, 06:54 AM) I feel the same.....they young'ins don't turn me on at all.... Same here 'moonlight' Younger men do not interest me in the least.I feel they are like my sons. Flirting is fun and harmless within the boundaries you all mentioned. Personally give me a good book and a glass of warm milk! Best Wishes Elizabeth |
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Apr 11 2009, 03:02 PM
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Super Surgette Group: Members Posts: 868 Joined: 8-September 05 From: East Texas Piney Woods Member No.: 19,494 |
I guess it's easier for me because I have neither husband or children (especially sons) to worry about. I can appreciate a handsome man regardless of the age. As CelticTigress said, I still feel 17 in my head, so it's a conflict. But underage (less than 21) is a little TOO young. They look like babies!I guess it's easier for men to do it because NONE of them ever grow up and mature. I've always said that men don't grow up, they just get older and bigger.
-------------------- Webalina
"Go as far as you can see. When you get there, you will see farther." -- Orison Marden |
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Apr 16 2009, 03:23 AM
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Super Surgette Group: Members Posts: 224 Joined: 8-June 06 Member No.: 22,962 |
Well I may be peri/meno but I'm sure not blind LOL.... Later 20's Early early to mid 30's is up my alley, nothing wrong with looking & a little flirting.... But touching is whole different story...
Men do it all the time, So why shouldn't we, I guess whatever floats your boat I say..... Everyone is different on this subject. sdblue |
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