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 Mar 14 2009, 09:54 PM
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I AM HAVING A PROBLEM. MY HUSBAND HAS A VERY HIGH SEX DRIVE. NORMALLY I AM ABLE TO KEEP HIM SATISFIED. HE KNOWS WHAT I AM GOING THROUGH AND HOW I FEEL SOMETIMES AND HAS GOT TO BE THE MOST PATIENT MAN ALIVE. SOOOO, AS OF LATE MY EMOTIONS HAVE SEEM TO HAVE DIED. I STILL LOVE THIS MAN DEARLY, BUT HAVE NO URGE, WANT, NEED, NOR DESIRE TO BE PHYSICAL IN ANY WAY, SHAPE OR FORM. HIS PATIENCE IS WEARING THIN. HE WILL NOT CHEAT BUT HE CAN BECOME A PAIN IN THE REAR TO LIVE WITH. HE DOES WHAT I ASK WITHOUT FAIL, DROVE ME TO 500 MILES PLUS IN ONE DAY TO GET OUR NEW DOGGIE, ALL WITHOUT COMPLAINT. I TOLD HIM THAT I WOULD MAKE US SOME "SNUGGLE" TIME SINCE HE DID SUCH A NICE FAVOR FOR ME. THE DAYS ARE PASSING AND NOTHING. I WANT TO DO THIS FOR HIM, I REALLY DO BUT WHEN I TRY TO GET THINGS GOING TO EVEN GET US IN THE MOOD I FEEL....NOTHING. WHY? I KNOW HE TAKES THIS PERSONALLY LIKE I DON'T FIND HIM ATTRACTIVE ANYMORE BUT IT REALLY HAS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH HIM! IT'S JUST THAT I FEEL ZIP FOR SEX RIGHT NOW. ADVICE?
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Mar 14 2009, 10:55 PM
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 Super Surgette Group: Members Posts: 677 Joined: 2-August 07 From: Illinois Member No.: 28,781 |
Ladybugs,
I most certainly feel your pain...I could have written your post word for word! I am living it also! My husband does try to be patient, but reaches that point where he can be very hard to live with if it's been a long time...you know what I mean! I try to just give in to him occasionally, but like you, have ZERO urge or desire to do so. And it's not him...it's me! If anyone does have some advice, I certainly would like to hear it also! Ladies...can you help us (and our husbands!)? Di -------------------- If one door opens to another door closed, I hope you keep walking till you find a window...
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 Mar 14 2009, 11:01 PM
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 Super Surgette Group: Members Posts: 872 Joined: 26-August 08 From: Texas Hill Country Member No.: 35,512 |
Unfortunately, I don't have any advice for you ladies. I wouldn't mind being in your shoes, though, because I have the exact opposite problem. I've never lost my sex drive, but my husband has. A long time ago, in fact. Is it ok if I be jealous for a while??
 
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