Q: hi I have had only one gyn exam and that was 30 years ago.( unethical ). I am now considering seeing a gyn doc for hymenoplasty but am feeling panic because I know I have to go through an exam before the surgery. I do not want to explain all of this to the doc because I am afraid he will not think I am a good cadidate for this surgery. how can I deal with this anxiety?

A: I think that all you can do is to try to choose your doctor well and trust that the doctor will do a good job. If anxiety is keeping you from making an appointment, then ask a friend to make the appointment for you. You might consider a female doctor if that is more comfortable for you. You need to make a leap of faith here.Stuart Shipko, MD (Psychiatrist/Neurologist)
Founder and Medical Director of PDI -
The Panic Disorders Institute
Author of Surviving Panic Disorder: What You Need To Know Information provided by Dr. Shipko is general in nature and should not be construed as a substitute for a visit to and examination by your own personal physician.
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